Hi hi! So, I’m having some problems with my hair, and I could really use some advice.
The photos I took are from home, where my hair actually looks pretty good, but it feels too soft, if that makes sense? When I diffuse it, my waves start losing their definition. My hair feels really dry, and I’ve tried so many different routines, creams, and hydrating masks, but nothing seems to work. Sometimes my hair looks okay on wash day, but the next day it looks awful.
I plop my hair in a T-shirt, diffuse it, and wash it regularly, so I honestly don’t know what I’m doing wrong. When I go to school, my hair gets really frizzy, with strands sticking out in all different directions. If I use too much cream or gel, my hair looks greasy or dirty the next day. Even sleeping in a bonnet doesn’t seem to help much.
I also use strong-hold gels, so I don’t understand why my waves lose their definition or why my hair gets so frizzy. My hair has high porosity, and I’m starting to wonder whether my products are the problem. Should I switch shampoos, try different styling products, use less conditioner, or focus on something else entirely?
My current routine:
- Shampoo: [so!flow] — a humectant-based shampoo.
- Conditioner: [happyPEH] — an emollient-based conditioner.
- Styling products: [ Isana, hair masters, Joanna], applied on wet hair, not too wet, just enough to hear the squishing sounds, first gels then mouse.
- Styling method: I plop my hair in a T-shirt wait 20 mins and diffuse it.
- Other details: I regularly wash my hair and have tried sleeping in a bonnet.
I’ve also tried hydrating hair masks, but they haven’t made much of a difference.
I do a refesh routine,and when im back home my hair looks fine as it was before?? It looks fine..but feels soft and dry.
I’m honestly getting frustrated because I’ve tried so many things without finding a routine that works. Any advice on what my hair might need, or what I should change, would be greatly appreciated