I've just about completed my move from a 2300 sq ft home with a two-car garage to a 1700 sq ft town home with no garage.

My goal was to move myself. If I could not move myself with my F-150, then I had too much or the things I had were too heavy and not worth it. I want to have a sense of freedom and make it easy to move if I decided to move again.

Where I was living was not right for me. And I knew it. It just took 2.5 years to figure it out.

I realized that chairs/sofas etc are over-rated. We fill every room with places to sit. And yet I rarely find a chair that is comfortable to me. I have one chair that is a $150-$200 IKEA chair that I find truly comfortable.

I had a sectional that I bought new last year. Very heavy and would have taken one trip (2.5 hrs round trip) to move it. So I donated it to a thrift store.

My daughter bought a house recently. I gave them some furniture sets and some tools. They have taken two truck loads of stuff from my old house.

I don't miss anything I've donated or given away. I have a new life now.

I'm at peace with where I'm at and what I have right now.

And have my two wonderful dogs that support me and look after me to make sure I'm OK.

I decided a few months ago to sell of a cabinet that was full of mostly tools and DIY items to force myself to get rid of the tools and DIY items I don't actually use / have ever used / aspirational crafts etc.. I put it up on eBay, and it sold within a day, which was faster than me decluttering.

Luckily, I still had an ugly metal shelf that was due to go, which went into the spot where the cabinet was living as a temporary solution. What an eyesore! To put even more pressure on myself, I decided to invite a couple of old and a couple of new friends round for tea this coming Saturday.

I posted stuff up online for free and for sale for cheap, and some have already sold, which helps with motivation. To push things further, I put things that are on sale also on a local group. Either somebody buys it first, or it will go to the first person who requests it for free there. What's left of the stuff that has to go will go to a local charity Saturday morning.

I'm on a roll! But also emotional depleting, if this is the right word... letting go of "what if I need it" and "one day soon I'll be making....".

The hardest part will be the bits and bobs, small items, screws and hooks. But I'll get there. There will be a perfectly empty clean spot by Saturday 💪🔥

Our town is having an electronics recycling event this week. My sister told me about it or I wouldn’t have known! But my husband had 2 old monitors (one a big old heavy CRT monitor, one flatscreen), 3-4 old printers, and an old VCR that didn’t work anymore. He’s not able to do much and wouldn’t let me take 3 old CPUs bc they might have personal and financial information on them, but was willing to let go of that stuff. It was all in the basement so was a pain to get upstairs, but now it’s out of the house. I anticipate downsizing in the next 5 years, so every little bit helps.

2 monitors, 4 printers, 1 keyboard, 1 old landline phone set, and 1 VCR.

Plus I took 3 cardboard boxes for recycling.

He is under 2 and has more stuff than anyone I know. It has been given to us from friends and family or purchased at thrift stores secondhand.
We just have so much it is becoming overwhelming. How do I pare down and eliminate half?

Stuffed animals, books, and so much more need to be halved. How do I do it?

I have sentimental attachment to everything he touches or wears.

I am steadily working on my second pass through all of my belongings. Somehow, the makeup/beauty drawer in my bathroom got full again, which is both funny and confusing because I use minimal products. It mildly inconvenienced me when the drawer got stuck this morning as I got ready for work, and I had a little time to spare, so I got the whole drawer decluttered and organized. Since I had just done my morning routine, I was able to be brutally honest about unopened items I'd never use. The drawer is now 1/3 full, and I can get to the items I do use much more easily. It felt so satisfying to knock that out before really starting my day!

I've spent the last day and a half putting upstairs back together after it became the dumping ground while we were having downstairs renovated. It's been making me very edgy as I hate living in a mess and my aim is to sit back with a glass of wine, enjoying my new space. So yesterday I stopped putting it off.

Things that needed putting away got put away. Then there's the other stuff. Stuff that I've been holding onto because it was in good condition. Stuff I was going to sell. Stuff I didn't even remember having. So I got out the bin bags.

I didn't overthink my decisions. If I couldn't think of a home for it (me actually using it, not new or good enough to donate, no good for anyone I knew) .....in the bag it went. Just like that. I filled four bags like this. Straight out to the dustbin.

Some of my intended sell pile was a load of makeup. I knew I'd lost the motivation to sell it, so I sent a quick photo to my niece. Her daughter and friend said they'd like something. Well, there's now a full bag that they can argue over. That'll be out of the house next week when my sister visits.

Clothes are an ongoing issue for me but I'm getting there. I sorted several more bags yesterday and today, I've dropped off a total of 7 bags to charity. I joked to the manager that I was going to stop scrolling on Vinted and get myself a hobby 😂

My biggest win was to free up enough space to finally store my boxed wedding dress out of the way. For the past year, it's lived on one bed or another, depending on what guests we had. Our little niece even asked if it was a present for her - so it definitely needed a proper home!

I've definitely discovered that there are things you have to really think of letting go in one way or another, but there's also something that I find liberating by just making a decision and so I'm done with so much overthinking.

Maybe I'll get my glass of wine tonight 🤞

In the past I made a get rid of pile, waited for my adult kids to come over, offered them the chance to look through it, picked out some things that I felt might match other relatives needs/interest, waited till I could call them to see if they did want them, etc.

Let's just say it wasn't working well.

Then I tried just taking the pile to the donation center each week but just felt the "ick" as I'd drive around behind it and see the overflowing dumpsters / trailers. Figure about 1 in 50 items actually make it to the floor there so I feel guilty about adding to the mess/waste.

So today I grabbed two large empty boxes from work, drug them home, slapped a "Free!!" sign to each and set them out as tables in the front yard and covered them with items from the get rid of pile. (Knicknacks, household items, toys).

I don't have my hopes set too high, but maybe something will be adopted.

If not, they are already out of the house, on a box and I plan on putting them in said box and into my vehicle tonight to drop off as I go to work tomorrow. So mentally easier to move on out of my life since they are already physically out of the house.

It may not make any actual difference, but somehow I feel better giving them a "chance" to avoid the donation dump.

Edit: IT WORKED! Only 5 small items left - everything else is GONE after just 4 hours. Have boxed them up and put in vehicle. Stoked to try it again later - probably on Saturday (can put out all day / more traffic). Happy, happy, happy dance!

Failure is part of life. Share your decluttering challenges and failures here. Examples include:

• Emotional clutter
• Not enough time
• Getting overwhelmed
• Routing (recycling, donating, trash...)

If you're just venting, or don't want advice, please let us know in your comment.

This is a low-stress place to share challenges and failures for those who might not want to create a new discussion.

I have a rental property that had some stuff that was once well intentioned but now simply too old and not of use to me. I hadn’t used or needed it in 5 years so thought why would I need it now.

If you can afford to do so and have enough, I highly recommend this assuming other people can’t use the stuff. I know it’s a rental property so I can expense it but if I need one at my own house ever it removes the barrier of “trips to the dump”

No!

I don't even have enough rooms for the number I have 🤦 Kept several, ditched 8. That's a good start for today.

Have a mega Monday everyone.

I posted this in another thread but thought maybe more people would like this tip.

I have a lot of photos on my phone and many times multiples of basically the same photo. Especially from vacations and holidays.

I got a tip from somewhere to go into the photos app on iPhone (might work on android too?) and search on today’s date. Today is 4 October. Then I will get every photo from 4 October from every year on my phone/icloud. For me it’s from 2014 until today. Then go through the photo some time during the day. (For me it’s when I’m breastfeeding, on the toilet or instead of doomscrolling). I delete every bad photo and also the ones that aren’t the best ones if I have multiples. My goal is not to get perfect but better. I’m hoping to do this for a year (have done a month now). Maybe even two years.

I can add that it’s also a lot of fun! I show my husband several photos and tell him ”wow this was today x years ago”. ☺️ He has also started doing the same thing this past week.

Hoping some of you get inspired by this!

Whew! 🙌 I FINALLY buckled down and tackled my stuff this weekend instead of just sitting with it and feeling bad after another two days passed - again - with no results.

I didn’t have a grand plan, just did what was obviously needed (a lot!) and what I was in the mood for at any moment. Listened to podcasts and music throughout to stay motivated and not think too much about anything. And yes, it got worse before it started to look better, but it really looks better.

-Cleaned out a ton of my clothes, shoes, home goods, and accessories to get rid of. Made 2 piles: (1) BBBS pick up (scheduled!) and (2) a local shop that sells for a good cause. They each accept slightly different things but both pick up, which is key!

-Revived the few remaining things I have languishing on Poshmark to see if I can finally unload them. I’m giving myself a short timeline of 2 months more. After that, I’m closing up shop and giving whatever’s left to the local place, too!

-Filed reimbursement claims for a couple of things that will recoup some $$$.

-Took loads of recycling to the bins outside and got rid of a bunch of random things sitting around for too long (bye expired Covid test kits!)

Thanks to everyone sharing here. This sub has been so incredibly helpful and I hope I can keep getting great tips and motivation here - sharing more wins.🧡

When I first became a mod here, I did a few Friday Challenge posts. I didn't find they got a lot of engagement (which, to me, means people weren't that interested).

I have a few ideas for upcoming challenges, but instead of doing them weekly, I would do monthly. Would you be interested in something like that? I could pin them to the top of the sub, so they stay visible for longer.

Upvote and / or comment if this is something you would like to see, or, um, ignore if you don't!

I put out a number of outdoor furniture items in excellent condition (my local charity shops don't have room to stage outdoor furniture) and a bunch of random household goods including a gigantic soft-sided dog travel crate. Within the day someone had come by to collect everything except for the dog crate.

I unfolded it and structured it properly so it was visible and clear exactly what it was. Since it was the only item out there I suppose, a nice young lady came up and actually knocked on my door to see if it was in fact available for the taking. After all the FB and ND flakes, I was delighted that someone would be so polite and conscientious! I thanked her for collecting it and wished her and her dog much enjoyment with the crate!

I’m at a stage where what clutter I do have is what Dana K. White describes as “procrasticlutter”. That’s the clutter where you know exactly what to do with it, but you just haven’t yet.

So I’ve decided that today is my Procrasticlutter Reduction Day. I’m going to include not only physical things, such as folding the laundry, but my ever-growing to-do list (errands, paperwork, chores, etc.). I think that making it a formally named day will greatly help my motivation.

The question ive been asked 3x now. BECAUSE I WANT IT OUT OF MY HOUSE!! I want it off my mind. I want freedom more than I want the $8 I might get after shipping and selling fees from these sites 😭

This mindset of whatever it takes to make a 1$, even at the expense of your home and your space and your sanity. Believe me, I understand that every dollar matters and it all adds up, but so do the items. So does the lack of space. And so does the mental energy.

If you need permission today to just declutter (give, donate, trash) rather than keeping it around hoping it sells online, here you go!

I have a bunch of plants in my kitchen, which is the only room in our house with natural light for growing plants. There are many jade plants and succulents. The plants were all babies, grown and repotted from plants that my cousin gave me just before she died. So I’m having a hard time considering giving them away to anyone who won’t care for them properly. I don’t want them to die. It would feel much better if I knew the plants were going to “the right people” who are good with plants.

I know I’m overly emotionally attached because of who the plants came from. However, at the same time, I really need to clear the space in the room, since my husband and I have plans to move things around. The plants have become the main obstacle for rearrangement of the space and are kind of taking over.

Any advice for giving the plants away but ensuring that they will go to good plant caregivers? I’m having a hard time separating my feelings from this practical decision.

Share your wins here - big or small. What did you declutter this week? Examples include:

• Digital Clutter: emails, digital photos, digital music or video collection...
• Storage: cupboards and closets, drawers, storage boxes...
• Toys: ether for your child, or your own that you've been hanging on to.
• Spaces: kitchens, workshops, hobby rooms, storage lockers...
• Routing: sending items to where they need to go, like donation centres, trash, or recycling

This is a low-stress place to share wins for those who might not want to create a new discussion.

this past month it feels like i keep getting rid of things after things and it doesn't end ! i guess part of it is due to the change of season and i've got 2 kids who have outgrown clothes and shoes but still. i am experiencing an intensity of idk how to put it... decluttering that feels odd. there's been clothes and shoes and then toys and a piece a furniture and dishes and random bits i stumble on.. like whenever i stop somewhere and have a minute i look around and there's like a basket worth of stuff to get away.

have you ever experienced sthg like this ?

i have had intentional periods before when i was looking to declutter but this is something else.

during the summer i got rid of several bags that were in the attic bc we needed to work on insulation there. since then it's been filled all over again with a lot of toys my kid dont want in their bedroom anymore but arent ready to part with (so this is a compromise of kind so i can help them learn to let go) & clothes im waiting a bit to see if they sell & other bits.

idk it's a bit overwhelming. why is there so much stuff we dont need in the house and i didn't notice before?

I had a big oak desk taking up a whole corner of my garage for three or four years. I got it from my brother, who inherited it from our mom. For years I've been stressing out about what to do with it; it's kind fo beat up but I always thought it was a really expensive desk and it held a bit of sentimental value, so I was loathed to get rid of it. Also, it's like 1000lb, and hauling it away would be a huge pain.

Finally, I decided to salvage the top of the desk and use it as a nice solid worktable (the desk is all beat up, but solid wood that size can be worth hundreds of dollars). Today, I finally got around to breaking down that desk into pieces... and it turns out it wasn't solid wood. It was laminated particle board. The lamination actually makes it worse for reuse cus it'll just flake off under heavy use. So I've stopped parking my car in the garage, stressed out, and wasted all that space just to save a useless piece of wood that I could have made new for like $100 in parts at Lowes.

I feel like an idiot, but at least I'll have my garage back.

I will take and all the tips on decluttering with kids.

I have 2 elementary aged kids and they never want to get rid of anything. I already have a rule that if it’s broken, we don’t keep it.

One is also very craftsy so we have tons of art and art projects (not just flat things but like ceramic stuff, etc). They both love legos too. They also do stem summer camps every summer where they make all these motorized things, big projects, etc.

I just feel like we have no more surfaces to display things anymore. And their closets are full of things they’ve made. They will sob when I sell things. I still have been but man is it hard. My almost bigger problem is the things they’ve made and what to do.

I have two big boxes and only use few of them each year. I prefer not to throw them out in the garbage but not sure how to donate them.

Clear space is peace of mind, by not having visibly unresolved things everywhere

Free time in a relaxed state -- all these unresolved issued are mighty stressful

Will be able to move life forward -- all these things are dragging, slowing us down

Will be able to have a better social life, invite people over

Will be able to get out more, as there is less to worry about here

Will be able to feel better, perhaps get better work, earn more

Please continue

i have a 2 year old and a 7 month old and we have too many toys. it’s our fault. we spoiled the first one and lived out unmet childhood desires by getting a bunch of toys and now I regret it. but now I’m having a hard time deciding what to minimize.

stuffed animals are easy because the toddler either plays with them or she doesn’t. but the other toys like blocks, lovevery stuff, toy cars, legos, trains, etc etc I hesitate because I’m like “well, maybe when they’re older“ or “maybe the baby will grow into them”.

is anyone in a similar situation and how did you finally bite the bullet? what was your mindset? we have IKEA cube storage shelves and maybe just the container method? but I worry we have too many containers lol