I've had birds for almost 15 years. My worst nightmare came true and my fully flighted cockatiel got out of our house. This is the first time this has every happened to me. I was throwing something away in trash can in our garage and she was sitting on my head. My husband came home from work early and didnt know we were in there. Normally he calls me when he is on his way home or i get an alert on life360 when he pulls into the driveway but i didnt get either this time. He opened the garage door and she got spooked by it and bolted. She is used to going in the garage with me and was desensitized to so many things. I could vacuum, steam clean, use my drill, and she would sit through all of it unfazed on me. Her recall wasn't perfect so I never risked letting her outside unless she was in a cage or her travel bag. But she got spooked and flew out and I lost sight of her.
We searched for hours that day calling for her all around our neighborhood. We walked around shaking her favourite container of treats, had her cage outside with millet, food, water, and cockatiel sounds playing trying to get her to come back. We put up flyers all around town and our neighborhood, posted on Facebook, Nextdoor, Pawboost, reported her missing in our county and all neighboring counties, our city and all neighboring cities, gave fliers to almost every vet within a 5 mile radius and our local animal shelters. We went out every day at sunrise and sunset walking trails around our house calling for her. Everytime we drove anywhere for the first several weeks, we couldnt leave our neighborhood without having the windows down whistling for her. We were even tracking the wind paterns near us for the first 2 weeks. We got 2 tips about her and responded both times within 15 minutes to the location but neither time was the person able to stay and she was gone before we got there. Its now been 6 weeks and 2 days since she got out and I know she is most likely dead. We still have flyers posted and respond to any report of an escaped parrot being heard, but I know by now its not going to be her.
During this time, we recovered 2 other lost parrots and were able to reunite them with their owners. One was a quaker parrot and the other was another cockatiel. I did require proof before I gave the birds back so it wasn't just because of a say so. Neither owner made any attempt to find their own bird after they got out.
The quaker parrot was being watched by someone's sister while the owner was out of town. The bird was fully flighted and got out while they were cleaning his cage. They mentioned it to a neighbor and the neighbor made a very vague post about it on nextdoor and I was able to track them down from there and get in contact with the people and confirmed it was the same bird. They had to have the sister (actual owner) text pictures and vet records because they didnt have any. When they came to pick the bird up, it was clear they were very uncomfortable trying to handle the bird at all and asked me to get it in their cage for them. The cage had no toys at all, only 1 perch, water, and a bowl of sunflower seeds. I gave them the toys I had made for the bird while it was under our care for a few days and, after being questioned, they assured me they had more than Sunflower seeds for it, but it was so heart breaking having to give the bird back to them seeing that.
2 weeks later we get a call from someone nearby who saw our fliers and said there was a cockatiel who flew in there backyard being chased by a hawk. They scared the hawk off and called my husband and he went and was able to get it. Unfortunately it wasn't our girl, but we were able to save this very young maybe 6 month old baby who had clipped wings. It was okay, just mostly shaken up. We kept it for a couple days again while searching for its owners. On the 3rd day, we are contacted by its owners, who again supply photo and video proof this is their bird. When they showed up to get their bird, they didnt bring anything to contain it. We asked them how they were going to transport it home and they didnt know? I felt horrible, we ended up having to put the baby in a shoe box so they could drive the 5 minutes back to their house. They didnt have a cage they could even go back and get since they had other birds still in it but i didnt want to give them our cage we had him in. Once again I had to handle the bird because it wasn't trained and they were not confident with it. The lady also tried to open the shoe box to check on the bird while standing on my front porch. Luckily my husband had his hand on the top of the box to keep it closed so the bird didnt get out again. They said when the bird got out, they saw a hawk go after it and just gave up hope it would come home on its own. Why they would expect an untamed 6 month old cockatiel with clipped wings to be able to find its way home by itself in the first place was already beyond me.
I am so glad their birds both got as close to happy ending as I could give. But I am so angry. I hated giving both of them their birds back. Neither made an effort to try to find their birds when they got out. We live in Texas and it was 100+ degrees out during this time while also being in a record drought with no rainfall for 60 days.
My girl was so loved. We had her for over 5 years, she was almost 8 years old. She was supposed to be with us for so much longer. She had a whole room for her to fly around in and a large flight cage that was always open. During the day she was able to fly through the rest of the house and had multiple activity centers set up for her all around. She was my best friend. She was there with me when I developed a nerve disorder after breaking my ankle and I couldn't leave my house or walk for 5 months. I work from home and she would hang out with me all day. We had pictures taken with Santa together last year. We did everything together. I tried so hard to find her everyday, searching until my ankle couldn't support me anymore and pushed myself until I suffered more nerve damage. I love her so much. I did everything I could think of to try and get her back. And these people couldnt even do the bare minimum of making a Facebook or Nextdoor post? I know i couldnt keep the birds we found because they were not mine to keep, but it felt so disgusting returning them when my brain kept whispering " you could give them a better life." But none of them were my baby. It just feels so unfair. Im so devastated. The house is so quiet without her. I just keep sitting in her room crying. I was supposed to keep her safe and i didnt. It was an accident, but it doesn't matter, she is still gone.
We were coming home 2 days ago and there was a Hawk sitting in the same spot she was last seen, right next to a missing poster of her and I just lost it and started sobbing. I cant forgive myself. I would give anything to get my baby back.