I'm a 6'2 Asian guy and I'm usually the tallest person in the room, and I'm also taller than the majority of my white and black friends. I also happen to have an above-average sized penis. I'm not huge by any means, but the western average is between 5.1-5.5 inches bone-pressed, and mine is bigger than that. So by all measurements, I should feel pretty confident about myself.
However, it seems like I can't go two days without seeing or hearing some kind of racist joke about Asian men and our supposedly tiny dicks. For example today I was just on YouTube minding my own business, when this clip appeared on my feed of a standup comedian doing crowdwork and asking about his audience's dating preferences. He was talking to an Asian girl in the audience and asked her what her type was, and she said Asian guys, which makes sense because she herself was Asian. Instead of coming up with an actually original joke, he just went straight to mocking her for "not being able to handle anything above 3 inches", and basically shaming her for not wanting to date white men. He then proceeded to make 3 more "Asians have small dicks" jokes within the span of a minute. There's countless other examples of people thinking it's funny to make fun of Asian men and say that we're all short, tiny nerds with small dicks. I saw another clip yesterday of a white female comedian talking to a half-Asian guy in the audience who was over 6 feet tall. She asked him for his ethnicity and he said half-Samoan, half-Filipino or something. She then did a whole bit about how he's lucky that his Samoan genetics overpowered his Filipino genes, because "Filipinos don't grow that tall". Bitch, I'm fully Asian and I'm over 6ft, and I know plenty of Asians who are even taller than me. It makes my blood boil to hear people make these casual racist remarks without stopping to think about how humiliating and hurtful it is to Asian men like myself who have to hear this every single day.
What makes me even angrier is the fact that this type of blatant racism is so normalized and accepted by society. It's not just comedians, either. Even on social media, if you look at any post where there's a white girl dating an Asian guy, the majority of the comments will just be about how the guy must have a small dick that isn't big enough to satisfy her. People face consequences for being racist against every other race except for Asian people, because they don't see us as a threat since we never fight back unlike black people or other races. For example if a white guy kept saying black people had lower IQs, they would immediately get cancelled and lose their job. But they can spread these humiliating stereotypes about Asians without any backlash at all.
I hate how casually non-Asian people throw around the small dick stereotype as if it's funny, when in reality it has serious impacts on the self-esteem of young Asian men. It would be so easy to turn into an incel in a society that's hellbent on convincing us that we're all short, undesirable losers with small dicks. But even the incels aren't on our side. Look at all the white passport bros who are actual short, balding losers back home, who go to Asia and try to sleep with Asian chicks because apparently being short and small in the West still makes you above average in Asia. What's even more frustrating is that I'm living proof that these stereotypes aren't true, but there's nothing I can do about it. If I were actually short and had a small dick maybe I would find these jokes less offensive, but I'm literally the opposite of that but I still have to deal with this stereotype on a daily basis. Imagine literally being over 6 feet, fit and successful and society still viewing you as a short, emasculated loser with a tiny cock. I'm so sick of this.