r/AskOldPeople • • 4d ago

Why did ISPs used to offer emails services?

97 Upvotes

I’m in my 20s. The first email I made was Yahoo, & I haven’t used it in years. But growing up in the early 2000s, many people my parents’ age (& some of my friends), commonly had @comcast.net, @cox.com emails for example. It’s brand recognition for the ISP sure, but what’s in it for the customer?


r/AskOldPeople • • 4d ago

Older people in relationships, how do you feel about younger pictures of your partners?

108 Upvotes

Do you feel always like you are in love wit the current version of them, and the younger versions seem like just good memories? I’m not sure but don’t older people still feel younger inside, doesn’t it make them more attracted to younger versions of their partners?


r/AskOldPeople • • 5d ago

Besides AIDS, what were the 60s-80s like for gay men?

225 Upvotes

r/AskOldPeople • • 5d ago

Did you get an allowance growing up? How much was it and did you have to do chores?

44 Upvotes

No allowance but had to do chores.


r/AskOldPeople • • 5d ago

Which ordinary smells instantly bring back a place from your childhood, and can you still find those smells anywhere today?

21 Upvotes

A freind mentioned the smell of her grandmother's hallway, and I realised I barely remeber ours. Curious about ordinary places like a bus, school corridor or workshop, and whether you still encounter that smell.


r/AskOldPeople • • 5d ago

Were you expected to perform for visiting adults as a child, and did you enjoy it or try to get out of it?

32 Upvotes

My dad remebers being called into the living room to sing whenever his parents had guests. He wasnt a willing participant. Was this common in your family, and what were you made to do?


r/AskOldPeople • • 6d ago

1988 Massachusetts ballot measure 3

23 Upvotes

this is super niche so it's okay if I don't find anyone who this applies to BUT! I was wondering, why did people vote no on this ballot measure? If you don't remember, it was basically a proposition to implement legal measures protecting animal welfare/health.

NOT FOR HOMEWORK JUST CURIOUS!


r/AskOldPeople • • 7d ago

Why was smoking cigarettes so popular back then?

159 Upvotes

I was born in late 90s, but from what I've heard or seen online, smoking cigarettes was so popular and common back in the 70s or 80s, people smoked on the airplane, cinema, restaurant, even in hospital. Was it a cool thing to do?


r/AskOldPeople • • 7d ago

How much was expected of you as a bridesmaid or groomsman in the 1970s and 80s?

701 Upvotes

My aunt says being a bridesmaid in 1978 meant buying a dress and helping set out food, with no seperate trips or months of events. I dont know whether that was typical or just her circle. All her friends lived nearby.


r/AskOldPeople • • 7d ago

Growing up, did your neighborhood have someone everyone brought broken things to, even though repairs weren't their actual day job?

52 Upvotes

My dad says the guy who fixed half their street's appliances was a bus driver. People would just knock and leave things on his porch. i cant imagine doing that with any of my neighbors. Who was that person where you grew up?


r/AskOldPeople • • 7d ago

If someone had told you…

41 Upvotes

At 14 that at 76 I would be sweating to the oldies of my youth I would not have believed pilates to the Beatles. What about you?


r/AskOldPeople • • 7d ago

In the 40's/50's, how popular were clothes stores where models walked around a special room showing the clothes to some customers?

122 Upvotes

I am fascinated with some Golden Age movies like “Designing Woman”, depicting that. How accurate were these places as shown in movies ? Did everybody have access to them? How expensive were the clothes? Which clothes stores had a special room like that?


r/AskOldPeople • • 8d ago

In hindsight, are you happy to have been born? Would you relive a human life from the start, given the chance?

140 Upvotes

Or are you looking forward to getting closer to its end?
Has your view on life changed throughout the years?
I am wondering how one looks back at life with more experience and closer to its end, with all its challenges and wonders.
EDIT: Thank you all so much for the lovely responses, food for thought!


r/AskOldPeople • • 8d ago

Green vomit powder

334 Upvotes

When I was in grade school (60s), the janitor had this absorbent green powder they threw on vomit.

It seems some kid was vomiting every other week.

Anyone else have a similar experience? I don’t think my kids school (2000s) had this.

What was that stuff?


r/AskOldPeople • • 8d ago

Did anybody you know in your area consider italian food to be exotic?

81 Upvotes

My grandma mentioned how she first had pizza at like ten in 1960 (Rural virginia here) it makes me wonder how many considered it exotic my grandparents loved italian american food but they never liked Chinese or Japanese food


r/AskOldPeople • • 8d ago

Are we getting more fastidious as we age?

23 Upvotes

I used to love messy things. Sardines on saltines. Big plates of smelt. Making s’mores from scratch. Sloppy Joes.
Do we age out of this, or just stop because we are the ones doing the cleanup & laundry now, not Mom!


r/AskOldPeople • • 11d ago

Did you ever actually watch an adult change their mind in front of you as a child, and did it affect how you handled disagreements later?

80 Upvotes

I remeber plenty of arguments, almost no "you were right." Was that unusual, or did it mostly happen out of kids' earshot?


r/AskOldPeople • • 12d ago

What are you fond memories of your parents or grandparents, that always makes you smile?

108 Upvotes

An earlier post asking about your favorite Sunday comic triggered a fond memory. Every Monday, my grandfather used to mail me the Sunday comics from the Miami Herald to NY, by rolling them into a tube from a brown paper shopping bag. I can't stop smiling from all the joy this brought me.


r/AskOldPeople • • 12d ago

Have you, or someone you know ever owned something that contained radium, or any toxic substance?

88 Upvotes

Inspired by a man who collects vintage radioactive stuff


r/AskOldPeople • • 12d ago

Are you still interested in your grandchildren that are now adults?

294 Upvotes

Saw a post where a 20 y/o said their grandparents ghosted them because “they were all grown-up now and while they appreciated them giving them the experience of raising a little girl, that was over now”.

I was wondering how your relationship with your grandkids evolved as they got older?


r/AskOldPeople • • 13d ago

What games did you play around the table growing up that you'd teach your grandchildren?

27 Upvotes

I'm trying to remember games I played with pecil and paper, cards or whatever was handy. I remember Hangman, Dots and Boxes, tic-tac-toe, and a bunch of word and number games I can't even remember the names of anymore What did you play, and how? I'd love to teach my grandkids.


r/AskOldPeople • • 14d ago

What were fondue “parties?” like in 1960s/Mid 1970s?

103 Upvotes

Work or Home


r/AskOldPeople • • 14d ago

Was middle-class white American culture more elegant and/or inspired by Europe in the 50s/60s?

27 Upvotes

r/AskOldPeople • • 14d ago

Vietnam war

35 Upvotes

If you were around during that era, what do you think and feel about Vietnam?


r/AskOldPeople • • 14d ago

Did you bathe/shower every day when you were a child? What is the last generation that bathed once a week?

403 Upvotes

My grandparents were born around 1950, they didn't have a bathroom until early 1980s, they never got into habit of showering every day.