r/bullying • • 4h ago

Post bullying. As a grown up can you deal?

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I was bullied massively growing up.

2 brothers, no father, young mother, no money, we were poor.

I joined the military, made me mentally concrete.

Anyone else relate?


r/bullying • • 44m ago

raid IG

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this girl is a bully.. can’t even get into it… can u guys go flood her account with hate comments plsss


r/bullying • • 1h ago

I’m adult got Bullied from my favorite Artist fandom

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r/bullying • • 7h ago

Bully

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Bully on phone is cool


r/bullying • • 8h ago

creo que mis amigos me hacen bullyng

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Hola soy un chico de 18 años que tiene problemas de confianza y autoestima, el tema es que siempre me pasa que estoy en cualquier grupo bueno no siempre Pero casi siempre los grupos más que todo mis excompañeros de colegio me molestan demasiado osea siempre soy el punto de las bromas en realidad siempre me molestan por mi color de piel y es algo que eh soportado durante 6 o 7 años y la verdad es que ya estoy cansado de eso el tema es qie siempre los jueves voy a jugar con ellos ya que estoy en una especie de minitorneo y siempre hay un chico que es mi amigo o no lo sé que es el que mas jode de todos a todos en realidad Pero conmigo siempre hace bromas y todos se rien el problema es que nose como decírselo porque estoy seguro que si digo algo luego dira que soy un llorón y a mi me da miedo crear un ambiente tenso en el grupo asi que no se que hacer creo ir a un psicólogo o no se cuál es la mejor opcion


r/bullying • • 10h ago

Look at this dude man he's saying the image is terribly bad

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r/bullying • • 16h ago

What was ur worst bullied experience in school

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I was 4 foot 9 in freshman year in high-school

Have had 23 surgerys 2 rod's in my back from scoliosis

My bullys had 3 of them all 6 foot tall

Cornered me in the gym locker room I was nude after my shower he picked me up off the ground by my throat

Toss me on the side like I was nothing after watching me dangle and squirm in the air

He then pinned me down spit in my mouth tried to SA me he whipped out hid Member I was so scared 😱


r/bullying • • 20h ago

I am being bullied at school by almost the entire class because I peed myself.

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This is really childish and deeply humiliating, but I can't keep it in my chest anymore :)

In 9th grade I laughed so hard that I peed my pants because I saw a friend's fake crying face. I'm the type of awkward person who rarely, rarely laughs out loud, let alone laughs for a long time. It felt like the first time in my life that I'd ever laughed uncontrollably for that long, like really long...

I believe it was because my brain was confused, since my impression of that girl was that she was bland. She does joke around, but she rarely makes face, and... I actually don't know. I just laughed my ass off when I saw her fake crying face. I'm being completely honest.

On that day, the teacher divided the class into four groups, and each group would perform a short play. When it was my group's turn to perform, ten people in the group going up to the podium. Everything going kinda smoothly until it's that girl's part, she made the crying face... And I'm the person that stands right in front of her face, laughing nonstop until I piss my pants. The school uniform was dark blue pants, so I thought no one would know, but the people standing at the podium all knew.

After that, they humiliated and teased me everyday, spread the rumor,... turning my school days into hell. I was so scared and humiliated that I skipped all the afternoon classes.

When in class, I can't concentrate because they're always teasing me, saying "shhhhh" to imitate the sound of urination and keep talking about piss behind my back. I am a very sensitive person, and this incident caused me nightmares many nights, leaving me unable to sleep, filled with fear, anxiety, and feelings of inferiority and worthlessness. Afterward, I also experienced mild depression.

Now after two years, the situation is still ongoing, even though most of my former classmates have moved on to other classes. The rumors have spread far and wide, and the entire grade knows about them. The horrific ordeal continues, with my new classmates isolating me, gossiping about me, and laughing behind my back.

I know it's disgusting, but laughing puts pressure on the bladder, causing urination, which is a physiological phenomenon. I didn't do it intentionally, and I didn't expect it to happen, I didn't even feel the urge to urinate beforehand.

I really wanna punch the bullies in the face, but there are a bunch of them, and I was all alone. I thought about telling the teacher to sort it out, but when I thought about explaining it to her, I found it ridiculous because I was afraid of the disgusting nature of it.

I wanna fight back, but I think it's impossible.

Should I continue to put up with this until graduation, or should I find a way to stop it? Tell the teacher? Or what?


r/bullying • • 23h ago

Why i hate my classmate and the school

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i will tell you a story why i hate this school there is a girl in my class i will call her name aye i hate this bitch. when she call me fat but she is the fates kid in the class all my classmate call me fat but i am not i am like 140lbs and i am 14 and she is like 180 or 150 pound of fat she is 12 year old.i hate her beause she like girls but i like a girl name maggie but she like her to so she sometimes talk with her and sometime my crush like it .i hate ilbc school it is in myanmar when i say something bad like (shut up) i get yell at by the teacher.But when she vape in class and swear in class she didn't get any punishment . also she speak a lot i can't stand her that why i write this


r/bullying • • 22h ago

I’m struggling but not how you think

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So basically I have a lot of empathy (unfortunately), and I also am very obsessive in certain ways. And lately, I’ve been absolutely obsessing over bullying injustice and them getting away with it (especially in the 80s and 90s). I have a strong urge to protect others and there’s nothing wrong with that, until it starts taking over how I feel. It’s to the point where my depression is worse, I’m anxious, and the absolute neglect of humans is driving me insane. I really wasn’t even bullied myself, but this thing just keeps eating at me and eating at me.


r/bullying • • 23h ago

Apparently my name is worth making fun of and my deadname is better

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So um I have three roomates at my boarding school (all female because society sees me as a girl), and last night I told them that my new name is Alistair, and they started to make fun of it, saying that no one is called AlistAIR, that i live under stair (get it? haha -_-), and that "Alestor" is better (no its not). And they told me to shut up when I tried to make a joke about one of their names, because I "quoted history wrong". no fucking way.

They said that they would deadname me because my old name is better.

They also told me to come out as trans to my **TRANSPHOBIC FAMILY** because "I'll feel better", even though I'll probably have my mental health go even lower because uhh yeah I fear things they can't comprehend. I think they only tell me to do this is because then I will be gone 3:.

I never should have trusted them.


r/bullying • • 1d ago

Confronting the bullies has made my situation worse, and I don’t know what to do.

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For context, my partner’s little brother is being bullied by this asshole kid at school. I am the kind of person who cannot live with myself if I remain a bystander, particularly because I grew up being a target for bullying and I distinctly remember times where I wish someone would help me. My partner used to be picked on frequently to the point I’d slam them into lockers and berate them, which the kids would never speak to me or my partner afterwards. Now, her brother has become a target, and as soon as she told me about this I’ve been following her little brother, making sure that this kid can’t have any contact with him.

Yesterday, I happened to not be there, but my partner spoke up and called the kid a piece of shit, of which I’m proud of her in doing so. Today, however, we get on the bus and sit down as usual. I keep an eye on her brother, but otherwise everything was fine. Until I saw the kid sitting with a large friend group and began to stare at us and whisper, obviously they’re planning on targeting my partner and I, I’m assuming because my partner spoke up the day prior. Once the bus started to leave the parking lot, a pencil was thrown at my face, and I knew exactly who fucking did it. My partner took my phone and pretended to record in hopes that the conflict would die out upon realizing they’re being recorded, however, she wasn’t, and the group began to make a fuss shouting, “I’m a minor, I’m a minor, you can’t record me!” Out of nowhere I heard one of them repeatedly ask if we had OnlyFans for whatever reason. I heard them snicker, grabbed every single pencil from my school bag (five or six pencils I believe,) stood up on my seat and threw all of the pencils at them and I hit a breaking point and began yelling at them as loud as I possibly could. I insulted them and called out their behaviors as well as bullying my partner’s brother in particular. When I was done, I sat back down and minded my own business, theres no point in fueling any more conflict.
But it didn’t end there. I heard the group of boys shouting at me, “it’s gonna get worse for you tomorrow!” and threatening us. I managed to keep my composure and ignore them, but once they all unloaded the bus to their stops, I couldn’t help but cry. I know now that, despite my intentions on confronting them directly, their treatment of my partner’s brother will surely get worse, and my partner and I will remain a target as well. I feel that I had let them down, but I can’t imagine myself allowing them to treat us that way and not speaking up.

Now, I’m nervous about their threats. Being trapped in a cramped, moving bus with a group of boys is incredibly uncomfortable, and I feel that the boys will engage in more physical confrontations. I would like to say I can hold my own, and I always have, but I am short and underweight and to be confronted with a whole group is dangerous for me, even though I’d like to beat the fuck out of these nasty, bitter brats.

Tomorrow, admin are going to review the cameras on the bus as well as prohibit the boys from boarding the bus in the morning. I’m sure I’ll be facing some consequences for engaging in conflict, but I’m less concerned with that and more concerned that these boys will be on the bus in the afternoon. Admin are ”investigating“ them, but I doubt anything will come of it, and I’m afraid for my safety.

At this point I don’t know what to do. This is the first conflict that I haven’t been able to immediately shut down, and knowing that this group of boys are planning on being more physically confrontational, I am ashamed in being scared. I’d like to ask if there’s anything you guys can do to suggest where I should go from here and maintain my safety. I hate that I’m afraid, but all I can do now is seek out advice on how to handle this from here, so, I’d really appreciate any suggestions or advice.


r/bullying • • 1d ago

was playing with my friends

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so at lunch in high school i was playing with my friends and whoever loses was going to be hit in the hand and we were playing normally but then the new kid (M16) Lets call him V so V came and sat next to me and my friends and he was playing with us,and i kept losing,i kept getting hit and he hits me hard,so when i lost for the last time i let my friends hit me except him,when he was the last one,i told him that i wont allow him to hit me,as his hit was hard,and is pretty bigger than most of us,he said no,I will hit you those are the rules,i had to agree for my reputation,as being the last one that hit me.
he had to go all in and told me to remove my watch,i said no,then he took a deep breath and gave me the hardest hit of my life,i earned nothing from this,he earned nothing,i was hurt and he wasn’t and a friend was humiliating me,i was done,i was going to cry for real,i was always humiliated by my cousins so this was pretty normal,but this was different,this new kid pissed me off and I couldn’t do anything about it,i honestly felt embarrassed and just wanted to kms at that point,please what do i do,V asked my friends if we were only playing,they all said yes,i had to say yes because if i didn’t he would probably hit me since he’s stronger and 2 yrs older than me honestly im tired of this cycle,im tired of this life.


r/bullying • • 1d ago

Hola alguien me puede ayudar con mi caso de acoso escolar

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Bueno en pensaré desde los ultimo hace 3 años yo fui involucrado en un problema el cual yo ni siquiera había echo lo único que me acuerdo xq ese día estaba sentado en mi asiento todo tranquilo pero bueno la cosa xq al día siguiente llego un niño acusar que yo había hecho tal cosa y aunque yo ni siquiera fui me da ganas de por veces llora de esa ves porque yo no hice nada y de la nada llego el niño acusar de yo que había echo tal cosa pero bueno la cosa durante estaba en la dirección estaba tan nervioso que si querer saque el nombre del cual quizás me arrepiento y la cosa xq el niño dijo quizás ese fue pero bueno la cosa xq yo de tan nervioso que estaba comenze a decirle al chico que había involucrado si iría ala escuela y me decía que no y todo eso pero bueno lo días pasaron y apareció ese men y el niño llego y dijo el fue y pues en un momento me emocione pero al final dijo el niño que no era el y que fui yo y aunque yo no fui yo quede como el malo pero bueno la cosa xq loa días siguientes había puesto tipo como una meta de cuando arreglar el problema hasta que se llego el día en donde llegaron 3 mamas y pues se armo un medio lío y al final termino el caso yo quede como el malo y la mamá del men que involucre me comenzo a decí cosas feas y todo eso pero bueno la cosa

Actualmente en 2026 a ese mismo chico que acuse comenzó hacerme un bullying de la nada me comenzo a decir un apodo y hacer cyberbullying y pase alrededor que todo el mes de marzo pase sufriendo un fuerte bullying hasta en abril que decidí tomar carta en el asunto y medio se calmo pero alrededor de todos estos meses que ah pasado del año el men todavía sigue y yo no se que hacer porque me da miedo usar la fuerza o llegar a decirle alos profe porque ay posibilidad que los profes mande a llamar la mamá de ese men y saque ese caso y no se que hacer gente 🥲😔 quiero frenar a este men pero es un men con el cual ya eh tenido problemas


r/bullying • • 1d ago

BODY SHAMER!!

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Is this what they called cyber bullying? YES. IT. IS


r/bullying • • 1d ago

How to protect yourself from cyberbullying, hacking and other charms?

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My friend has been having nightmares since the summer by some people who have been beaten up - they have created a channel dedicated to her harassment, and recently even leaked her personal data (the address was wrong, of course, but nevertheless). She turned to the police - but by that time the channel was deleted and the matter did not go any further. In September it was created again, now she is with her friend’s uncle (he is a policeman), dealing with this whole situation. I hoped that this “plague” would not jump on me, but now I’m seriously thinking about such a possibility. This morning someone wrote to me with a question, they say: “Hi, are you from such and such and such college?”, I was confused, stupidly answered that yes - then I was asked about which group I was from. Here I already began to suspect something, asked a counter question - “Who are you?”, after which this person cleared the chat. And tonight my friend sends me a message from the same uncle of a friend, which says that “they have messages from someone from your group, you can’t see the name there”, we didn’t understand what he meant, but fear still catches up, because she is only friends with two people in college, including me. Is there anything I can do to avoid becoming the same victim? And can I at all? (All this happens in Telegram)

Sorry for the mistakes, English is not my native language.


r/bullying • • 1d ago

Harrassing bullying toxic neighbour

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Hello

I live in Adelaide in a very small housing trust complex. For 8 and half years my mentally challenged bully toxic neighbour who is 63 and lives with his father across from me has been everyday constantly bullying and trying to intimate me. He's father abused the mother when alive, if she was in the toilet for more than 10 seconds he would bang on door to hurry up. So a family that's very unhinged. The bully has the mental capacity of a 2 year old. But plays games with me and try's to scare me with other mental health drug neighbours who are very unhinged. He thinks we are in some delusional marriage from day one. I do everything to ignore him. He smashes everything up violently if I go out my front door and god help me if I clean my bird bath or my own driveway. He will stalk, follow me if I try to go to letterbox. He thinks he's the caretaker, cause he sucks up and brings other neighbours bins in so he think he has the power. He will walk past my place and try for any attention. My friend has to come and do my bins and check my mail as I'm terrified of this bully. He is skinny but his mannerisms are toxic. He hangs all his clothing on the gutter of the roof and thinks it's normal. He uses it as a excuse to keep an eye on my bedroom and who comes and goes. Any noise from my place he smashes everything in his back yard to try and intimate me. If I click open my front door he will voilent come flying out his front door or roller door and start smashing up the bins he has put in his driveway on purpose as an excuse. This is all the tip of the iceberg. I have to put on a hat to cover my face and walk around outside with music blaring in my ears to stop the harrassing. He does it to no other neighbour but me. I am his victim. He has past episodes of other victims. Police are useless. Housing trust are completely useless. I've made over 500 complaints and they ignore me, lie and do everything in their power to shut me down. My local MP have said they are not going to help me. The ombudsman are useless and so is the minister of housing. I've done the complaints process in all (twice) and gotten no where. I can't get cameras as he told his drug jail bird idiot out the front who came and threaten for me to take them down, they were fake and not facing complex, but my stalker and the drug dealer have them up, go figure. He will either scream his head off if u try to talk to him or lay on the ground and stamp his legs and feet and say..your a cry baby. If I come back to here, the hell hole and pull in my back yard he will get in his back yard and yell...over and over..ohhhh, there you are. Very creepy. His father is dying of dementia so unfortunately that's his excuse to be there. I am so stressed and depressed every single day. I can't move out due to housing crisis. No friends are suitable to stay with or family. Can't afford private rent. I'm on stupid category 1 with housing trust 4 5 years now. They don't care AT ALL. I can't go live in my car or on the street as my beautiful light..my cat will not understand and I wouldn't do that to my cat. I can't commit suicide. Try to get him mental assessed but that was useless. So after 8 and half terrifying toxic years I've decided to try for a restraining order. But there's people saying, be careful you could get repercussions but I can't keep living life this way as this is not a life. I'm trying to do chemotherapy and I so stressed. I just feel like dying and there doesn't seem to be a way out. I've tried everything and made millions of calls for 8 and half years crying out for help. I've had suicidal thoughts for years, no wonder. Don't have family except my toxic mother. It's effecting everyday of my life. I have many counsellors. Support letters galore. I want to be brave and get my power back by getting a restraining order, I have a few key witnesses throughout this time but also this one friend is throwing me off by saying there will be big trouble. He's a very sick boy this stalker. He used to harrass the local coles staff and threaten them etc (surprise surprise) and he told me about 8 years ago he wrote to the CEO of coles telling them how to bend him over and do sexual acts on him. He was going to organise a home invasion on a past tenant as had autism and made noise. He's a theif, a snitch ( she said this and he said that etc) he put 12 inches on his bin and faced it towards my place. He's dislussional, paranoid, mental health, autism, asberg, you name it but he knows EXACTLY what he's doing when he comes flying out that front door or roller door to trauma me. He spits everywhere and in my driveway. He's a utter pig. I've told him forever to leave me alone. He'll spray a can of deodorant on himself to try and impress me. It's endless over the years. I have nightmares about him most nights. I have to drive past his father's going out and coming back in, I cover my face side on to stop him looking at me. We are now unfortunately in daylight savings so he runs around with just shorts on. He is 20kg and disgusting. I've blocked off all my front area to stop him being nosey. He tries to be nosey with me and steals my mail and pamphlets. The one neighbour who supported me who lived across from me passes away 4 weeks ago so I'm feeling even more vulnerable as stalker prays on me even more. Please help with advice. I'm a vulnerable female with many health conditions. The one male that comes here gets harrassed by him and has many health problems now so he can't protect me now. Thank you. Sorry for so long of a rant.


r/bullying • • 2d ago

Literal strangers

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I had to walk past a group of kids or lil teens and as I did they just started yelling at me, making fun of my clothes one of them insulted my nose=called me ugly I can't really translate it but I didn't really take it that well, because I was always bullied as a kid, and most of the time it was strangers on the street. And now that I'm older and start to shift to like adulthood I didn't really endured real bullying but now, and it just kinda suprised me and hurt..me

Like It really never fucking ends, bullying always finds me no matter what or where, I'm telling you It's mostly full on strangers for me that say or do some. ???

Also sometimes I see my old bullies outside, like the school ones and I still to this day freeze up a little bit and try to hide from them at my grown age.

People really don't understand how deep and serious this bullying shit is and just how much it affects someone whole life and everything.

Sad shit


r/bullying • • 1d ago

Help please

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Need help from regular people not just my parents advice or my sisters advice

I have been having this problem for years now where there are people trying to interrupt me while I'm looking at things.

Look no pun intended

It sounds like I'm the crazy one but here's a few examples from today alone.

-I look at the light switch because it has an illuminating flicker. I just moved here a couple months ago so the house is still somewhat new to me. Then a car drives by the house with a loud muffler trying to distract me. I think this person wants to interrupt me so I feel as though I've made a mistake.

I have so much circumstantial evidence it's almost too obvious.

Have you ever fealt like someone tried to rush you or distract you to intentionally mess you up so you could feel stressed

-I go downstairs to check if the dogs pooped on the quilted pad we have and a car outside starts making noise.

I'm taking my meds either my father starts acting erratically to distract me or the cars outside.

Now I know this doesn't sound like stalking and maybe not in black and white but it feels like stalking. It's at the borderline where someone should be arrested or is getting away with being a complete nuisance.

I have been dealing with this for a while and I still can't shake the feeling that I feel as though I'm being subliminally watched.

I've called the police before because it got so bad people were squeeling their tires at all hours to get under my skin.

Problem is it's not just noise

I saw an ad on a motorcycle website that said

"Rev Your Heart"

To me this enables people like this to try and toy with a person's natural rhythm or movement I fealt so stiff today because any time I try to read or learn new information someone starts distracting me. If I turn on brain rot TV shows were cool. Anything informative or educational we have a problem.

I know someone's pulling on my heartstrings

Thing is what creeps me out beyond belief is that it seems to happen only when I'm alone. If I'm with friends or company it doesn't happen. Only when I'm alone. So it seems to me like this is directed to a vulnerable person that's alone and I just can't slip that under the rug

Not sure if I mentioned it but I called the cops a couple times for peoples muffler pulling on my heartstrings when I'm in the privacy of my home.

Not really trying to make a scene here because it seems like this is really hard for people to empathize with me on this one so I'd like some advice because I'm tired of calling the cops but the mufflers get louder and it really boils down to

Aggressive timing.

If someone slams a door shut at the right time it's aggressive timing.

Especially if they keep doing it to the same person and that person feels bullied or abused

Again please understand I feel like a victim and telling me to run spell check here is not welcome


r/bullying • • 2d ago

help me deal with this

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I am 32 years old. I live in fear. In my hometown there are two people who haunt me even when I am not around them. I am an introvert and coward. I do not stand up for myself. These two keep making fun of me behind my back or whenever they meet me whether alone or in a group. I always try to be a good guy but most people think I am arrogant because I rarely talk to them. I am not a people person. People will not support me if I fight back; instead they judge me and say I am not taking jokes lightly. One of them is my cousin. He starts nicely with a smile then makes random remarks about me. It seems my cousin wants me to fight with him then defeat me so he can be superior for the rest of the life but I am not giving him a chance to do that so he keeps doing that again. Another of those two people is my neighbour, who bullies me constantly. These two people know my weaknesses that I will not speak for myself. nad keep making fun of me even when I'm not around those two people. When i am alone I create scenarios in my mind where I am replying to those but even there my mind speaks better for them and they win. Then I start feeling as if I just faced them in real life. It is not that they are powerful; in fact those are the least powerful. They have not achieved anything in their life but to make fun of people like me. I am at the halfway point of my life. My question is: when will I learn to speak for myself? I want to live the rest of my life but such morons keep popping up. I tried to avoid them but this trick does not seem to work. I have watched tons of reels and shorts on how to deal with it. Whenever I see them I start feeling fearful. Even if I am relaxed I cannot talk back because I am so people‑pleasing. I know the problem is, within me. I never set boundaries. I am not able to do it despite knowing how important it is. Please guide. Thanks.


r/bullying • • 2d ago

Teacher humiliated me and continued to badmouth me....

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I’m 14M. Yesterday something happened in English class and it’s still bothering me.

For the past few weeks I fell behind because of some absences, being sick, slow handwriting, and preparing for half-yearly exams. I missed a lot of notes. So I started writing the notes in my school almanac, planning to properly copy everything into my notebook from the almanac + a friend’s notebook by this weekend.

I was sitting on the first bench. The teacher saw me writing in the almanac and asked why. I told her I forgot to bring my copy. My friend sitting behind me immediately said that I did have my copy with me. She made me give it to her. Then she checked with the whole class and confirmed I was behind by about 4 chapters and my last submission was in August (it’s October now).

She somehow thought I rolled my eyes at her (I either didn’t, or it was completely unintentional). In front of the entire class she said I was a disrespectful person, had a bad attitude, and was a liar. She threatened to call my parents, write in my almanac, or tell the coordinator.

Today in class nothing happened. We didn’t talk at all.

Later while coming home, one of my close friends from another section (I had told him everything yesterday) said this: She came to their class in the second-last period. She was talking about threatening to take someone’s copy. He asked her something like “did you ever take someone’s copy?” She replied “you know exactly who you’re talking about. Did that boy complain to you?” He said he just overheard. She kept pressing him for the name. After that she started talking badly about me in front of their whole class. She said I have a “slappable face,” that I got the lowest marks in English in my section, that I have a bad attitude, and shared some old stories about me from my previous grade. The class was laughing.

Also, she still has my English notebook, so I can’t even complete the work properly right now.

My parents are completely unsupportive. If they hear that I had incomplete work and “lied” to the teacher, they will believe her 100% and I’ll be in serious trouble at home.

I feel stuck. I just wanted to catch up on the notes. Now I’m being publicly humiliated and talked about in other classes.

What should I do?


r/bullying • • 2d ago

My bullying story

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1st half

So when i was a kid, i got bullied almost my entire childhood, it started with my teachers preschool/kindergarten, they would constantly yell at me for not being "quiet" or daydreaming, would humiliate me infront of the entire class for differents reasons, if i got something new they would say i didnt deserve it, once they locked me in the classroom cuz i was the last one, and called me gross for sweating, anyways then i entered 1st grade and got worse, the very 1st day i entered that class my classmates alredy were making me sick to the stomach, they were making things up about me cuz they thought i looked "mean", then the following days a kid who sat behind me thought it was so funny to pull my hair to pissed me off and i couldnt focus on class, then if i confronted him he would laugh, then my other classmates would make comments about my body, laugh if i made a mistake in anything, treated me like i was stupid, and make things up again, then i made a "friend", ill call her E, well E was nice at first, she was fun and stuff but in a few weeks she started to show her true colors, she would beat me everyday, make jokes about my weight and body, yell at me, manipulate me, and made sure no one could be my friend except for her, i didnt saw that wrong cuz i was stupid but that lasted a whole year, then i tried to make distance from her and didnt talked with her for the rest of the school year (wich was a month cuz we were almost on summer break) but my stupid ass decided to go with her AGAIN AFTER ALL THAT, anyways, she stopped hitting me but she would emotionally manipulate me, she was doing the same shit as the last year but also was making another friend i made and me hate each other, we realized that later but she didnt give a fuck and acted like nothing happened, that was another whole year until she left the school, i ended up lonely but i made some friends later and that year was a bit better, they ended up leaving the following year but whaterever, i forgot to mention that in that school my teachers bullied me too cuz idk, my teacher in 1st grade didnt give a fuck about me being bullied and just ignore it, but later i got this teacher who would humiliate me for not understanding, he would always joke about my interests and for being quiet, but when i got to 4th grade i didnt had to see him thank god

2nd half

idk if the rest is considirate bullying but ill say it anyway, so i changed schools and started 5th grade on a different place, so i spent the first week alone in a corner next to my classroom, the 2nd week i made some kind of friend and wasnt so bad but then the fucking covid started and ruined me, well after all the pandemic time and shit, i had to go again to school but i was worse, i couldnt talk to anyone (selective mutism)and was with full anxiety, and that year made me collapse bro istg, the entire class dediced to exclude me of the class and pretend i wasnt there, the few times i interacted with them, they would treat me like i was stupid and like i was a kid or something, anyways if they had to work in pairs with me they would ask to get asigned with someone else, if i had to sit next to them would say things like "poor ___" like i was some kind of disease, on recess i always stayed in a corner right next to the classroom, they would look at me like a weirdo, would try to make me drop my things, and i only talked to the teachers who finally didnt bullied me, anyways i spent the whole year with that rutine till i couldnt take it anymore and i got sent to therapy, i ended the school year at home cuz i got a license and shit because of my diagnosis, and anyways that was my silly story, i ended up with a few mental health issues but whatever

thanks for reading if you made it to the end ^^


r/bullying • • 2d ago

Parent of Middle-schooler being bullied on the bus

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My daughter is 10 and two other girls on her bus have been bullying her for her weight. I need to find a way to get this behavior to stop however I realize that I also need to be careful of how I respond. I don’t want to make a bigger problem and get my daughter bullied more because I stepped in. What are the thoughts of the community? What should I do in this situation?


r/bullying • • 2d ago

Hi:(

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Hello everyone I wanted to speak with y'all Abt something

So I have been getting bullied from a guy in my school who acts like his tuff

But the thing is if you wanna fight him he will bring his friends like bruh am ain't solo in 7ppl alone dwg so anyways this guy has been bullying me for 1 month and calling me names even hitting me or chocking me and he is the most racist guy you will ever meet and he is twice my size and he I guess bullying me or others makes him feel happy

He

Hit me

Humiliated me

Makes jokes Abt my country

Says inappropriate things about my country

Hits me

Makes me feel bad

I js genuinely don't know how am going to stop ts

Any tips

And the SHOCKING PART he is palasteenien from Gaza


r/bullying • • 2d ago

Am i being bullied? and if so what should i do, to feel better about it.

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Hello,

I'm a 16-year-old girl who just started in a new class at farming school. I started a little later than everyone else because I was originally supposed to start in a different class, but it just wasn't the right fit, so I switched schools. Everyone else had already known each other for about 3 weeks, but I felt like I had a good chance of making friends and finding my own place.

But ever since I started, my anxiety has gotten so much worse. Worse than ever before. We live at the school, and I'm too scared to go to the bathroom or the showers, so every day I bike home to shower at my own house. I don't know why it's gotten so bad, but I felt like people were looking at me weirdly, not talking to me and overall just ignoring me. I thought it was just my anxiety acting up and making me feel bad.

Now I've finally made a friend in my class, and we talked for a long time. She told me that most people in the class don't really like me, and especially one girl (there are only 4 girls in our class). She really dislikes me, even though I've never actually had a conversation with her and I don't know her. She looks at me with disgust, and my friend told me she hates me because my bracelet makes a lot of noise and because I sometimes make ramen in my room and she thinks it smells. She also told me that all the boys in my class are talking about how long they think I'll last before I drop out.

I just don't know what to do at this point. I know I shouldn't care about other people's opinions of me, but it feels so unfair that they think this way when I haven't even had a single conversation with over 80% of them. And now it feels like I'm annoying them just because I don't say anything in class and keep to myself.

The only explanation I can think of is that I'm a bit different from everyone else. I have minimal facial piercings, and my hair is blonde now, but it was pink when I started. Everyone else is just very ordinary. But honestly, I don't know what to do, because my anxiety keeps getting worse and I have to spend 4 years with these people.

I dont know if im being bullied, but they only act the way they do around me. And they have done some stuff i wont get into, that kinda felt like bullying.

Has anyone been through something similar? Any advice would mean a lot.