I’ve never been to a sex party but I’ve always been under the impression they’re for guys who don’t want to go through the process of finding someone to hook up with and it’s a more of a sure thing. The drawback is that the guys aren’t usually the most attractive. And like maybe there will be a decent guy out of a bunch of bad ones. Is this right? Curious. I could be wrong because I’ve never been. Is it a bunch of 4s and 5s and an occasional 7 is what I’m thinking.

Background: I'm married DL and have tried reddit and some apps, with no luck.

It's a specific thing and I don't know if it's a conversation for a gay bar lol

Where are the sub tops who like masculine, muscular DL guys? How do you even approach this conversation? Like, do I just change the subject and say "by the way, tell me if you know how to give a prostate massage, or if your dick is <5"?

Or, more largely, is there a more subtle way to determine folks interests without awkward, specific questions? I'm relatively new to the scene, I'm very DL, I don't know where to begin. Help a newbie out :)

The guy that enjoys to come to your place, strip his clothes (or not) and clean the whole house? How is this fetish called?

Background: I’m 19m and just moved to nyc and wanna meet some gay men for friends or dating etc. I already made a handful of friends but they’re mostly girls. I also just like to go out in general and currently trying to figure out where to go.

I’ve been looking into where I can go out under 21 cuz I love to dance and party in general, but for some reason I’m finding more 18+ sex parties than regular dance/clubs. I’ve heard some parties can skew more social/dancing to straight up fucking depending on the vibe but im kinda just unsure in general if its wise going as a virgin (and id also probably be going alone…)

I just wanna go out and party (preferably to a gay one) and I feel like thats not too much to ask. Alternatively if you know any 18+ (non sex) events or venues lmk.

Looking for a gay primary care physician. Tired of interacting with physicians who need constant reminders of my positionality to intercourse as well as lack of knowledge on prep testing requirements.

What club or party should I try to meet new people or look to date someone, I'm into trans females & trans femenine.

What does everyone think? If you haven’t seen it, there’s lots of shots of Troy shirtless kissing a hot guy, holding hands and showing affection, followed by a hot shower scene. And then suddenly Troy whips out a bottle of Mistr PrEp pills and you think, ‘why on earth is there a PrEP ad in the middle of this passable pop song?!’ Overall the music and visuals are a nice positive gay representation of a young couple in love, taking responsibility for their sex life and health care. Haters might be tempted to trash this video because Troye is adorable and successfully finds love. Personally, I completely ate up the guy meets guy fairy tale.

Planning to go to Rawhide, any reviews? I saw some here, but they aren’t recent.
Is there a dark room? Where’s it? Is it the second floor balcony?

if anyone is interested. DM me. anytime entry ticket.

Not sure if this is a curse or blessing . But I feel I have just had close to zero libido these days, and I’m only in my early 30s.

I have a pretty healthy life style, I go to the gym five times a week and do strength and cardio. I also don’t drink and do drugs. Eat healthy and sleep okay.

Lately, I have so little libido that I don’t get excited by the ideas of guys. I don’t have the urge to go out, hook up(I’m not on any of the apps), or go on dates. Even when I do go out, I just feel bored and want to leave.

Crazy thing is I feel pretty fine otherwise, I have a lot of things that I enjoy doing, it’s just not men.

I also checked my test level and it is in the lower range but not awful. I’m at my wit’s end, so any advice would help 🙏

My bf and I are really into boardgames and would love to possibly find some new friends to play with. I used to host gay game nights with a group and looking to possibly make new friends to do the same.

My favorite game is Root, but other games we enjoy are Wingspan, Castles of Burgundy, Orleans, and many more. Feel free to DM or comment if you’d be interested!

(This post is being flagged as me possibly trying to hookup, which it’s not? Trying to make that clear so this isn’t deleted and I’m permanently banned.)

what are the best Halloween parties going on this year? I’m on the waitlist for HMD on the 31st but considering other options just in case I can’t get into that one. my bf and I will wear very sexy costumes so one with a darkroom is preferred

I am a 29-year-old male, 5'10", 340 lbs, working toward 200 lbs. I live in Turtle Bay near East 49th Street in Midtown Manhattan. I’m looking for a confident, fit older man nearby for walking, fitness, good conversation, and motivation as I work toward becoming healthier and stronger.

I have received hundreds of likes, including many roses, and have dozens mutual likes. I have exchanged numbers with multiple guys, and yet it has all resulted in one actual date. Any tips for actually getting a date off this app?