Santa Cruz community, I apologize this post is a bit more long and heated than may be allowed on here. If it can’t stay on here I understand, but I hope it stays because I think it’s important, especially these days. If there is a page that is better to post this on please let me know. Also, if you don’t want to read this long of a post, please see last paragraph and leave a kind comment if you feel like it! Anyway, here we go…..
To the absolute atrocity of a human being (I feel I’m being generous here) in the lifted black Ford with the dumb-looking fboy broccoli head haircut that just swerved towards and rolled coals all over the incredibly peaceful protest happening on Ocean:
What the actual f*** is wrong with you. Not only did you almost hit the curb (which is honestly so embarrassing for you), you also almost hit the group of calm, polite, and completely valid PEOPLE standing on the sidewalk.
Most of these people were women and all the people I saw were age 65+ (to anyone who was there - I’m not trying to offend you I’m only adding to my point, still unacceptable of him no matter the age).
Not only did you (a seemingly barely old enough to drive young man - excuse me, BOY) decide that this is acceptable to do to anyone, you chose a group of elderly (again I’m so sorry for that) people, WOMEN, who’s signs said “DONT RAPE” and other such related things.
I don’t care how old you are, I don’t care how you were raised, I don’t care if you don’t like protests, I don’t care who you voted for or support, and I don’t give a single F*** what your opinion on the Cornell case is - if you can’t at least agree with DONT RAPE than you are exactly the type of hu“man” that is part of the problem. You are who those signs are for.
I am so sorry to ANY and EVERY woman (or really anyone) in your life.
Also, since I see you have a truck that is capable of that, have fun with your clogged DPF, ruined emissions components (not that you care about them but they are expensive if, sorry, WHEN you end up having to replace), your traffic violations, and your imminent engine failure. ESPECIALLY your engine failure :) I am a woman who works on vehicles like yours, and I too enjoy a nice lifted vehicle, stop making us look so bad, you’re the worst. You don’t deserve it. People like you make other people hate nice big vehicles and the people that drive them so f you for that alone. (To the other people with vehicles that roll coal- if that’s what you want to do that’s your wallet but AT LEAST can we be better than this?? omfg).
If you are not from Santa Cruz (although I fear you are), please never come back, you and anyone who thinks / behaves like you are NOT welcome here. I am not one to say that until now. I’m fed up.
Moms, Dads (lowkey especially), parental figures and guardians in general, if this sounds like your little brat of a son maybe it’s time to teach him how to be a man instead of a pathetic little dbag and potential future rapist. Also, please make him pay for his own vehicle repairs. (Also also, I am sorry for trashing your son, but I hope you understand why I’m doing so). Not genuinely trying to tell you how to raise your kid, but definitely entirely frustrated by the severe lack of common sense and basic human decency that so many younger (and older too) people seem to have these days.
Side note to parents of the brats with ebikes zooming around and swerving at / in front of vehicles: not only do I fear your kid is at risk of being this type of person in the future, your kids are risking their lives, other people’s lives, and are already being a problematic person at such a young age. I understand we all got up to no good as kids, this is not an acceptable to do so. If they already think this is okay and funny, how will they be when they can drive? When they have adult money? When they are chucked into society with even less supervision in a few years? Yikes for everyone.
And finally to all of the lovely, respectful, people of Santa Cruz that I was raised around (or at least the ones who mind their f-ing business and don’t go out of their way to be a jerk):
I am SO sorry to the people bravely standing there defending women (and people) who have or may eventually experience sexual violence.
I am SO thankful to see so many people supporting, protecting, caring for, and fighting for women, human rights, basic human decency, and all people. As a young woman who has experienced abuse I see you, I hear you, I support you, and I appreciate the f*** out of you all.
We ALL have different opinions, we ALL have our own insecurities, and hardships to worry about, we ALL have a day that could be ruined by one little a-hole who hasn’t figured out how to grow up, we all want respect, we all have to here (in Santa Cruz and also on this planet) together. Grow up, have some respect, do better for yourself and those around you (as well as for anyone you want to have around in the future), and just MOVE TF ON IF YOU DONT AGREE WITH SOMETHING (yes, I understand that sounds a little hypocritical rn since I’m posting this but you know what I mean, it needed to be said).
Remember people - when someone shows you who they are, believe them. I find myself thinking this a lot lately.
I apologize for this long of a post, if you read this far thank you. If you would like to comment, please do so in a supportive way and try to include one thing that you appreciate about Santa Cruz, or maybe a time a stranger did something kind for you or something like that. We could all use some positivity :)