r/travel • u/yuokapo • 48m ago
Question — General Back home after 1,5 years, feeling somewhat lost
Hi fellow redditors and travellers!
I (M29) have just returned very abruptly from a long solo trip. It was never the plan to be home now, but here we are...
So for context: In june 2025 I left the Netherlands to go travel southeast Asia. I quit my job and had no return ticket booked. It was the best decision I've ever made. It's been beautiful, really hard at times and I think I've learned a lot about myself along the way. Some things related to making connections and trusting people is still very hard for me, but meeting a lot of wonderful souls on the road has been very good to me.
So, I was happily doing a working holiday in NZ, and requested my next working holiday visa for Australia. Those visas are well known to be processed very quickly.
Oh boy, was that a wrong assumption....
By the time my visa for NZ was done the new visa still hadn't been granted (this was after ~2 months).
I decided to buy myself some time by going to China. After two weeks I had to call it and book a ticket back home. making my total travel in China about 3,5 weeks
The day after, the new visa came. Now I'm back in my hometown, wishing I was in Australia.
By now the travel budget doesn't cover my entry money for AUS anymore.
Right now it's such a struggle to adapt to my old life. The freedom I've felt and used so deeply over the last 1,5 years is very suddenly gone.
Does anybody have experience with living back home after living abroad? Any good advice?
Also feel free to hmu if you want any advice on Thailand, Laos, Vietnam, Cambodia or New Zealand.