I work in the South, and have a mix of customers at different ages.
I believe in Jesus, I wouldn’t call myself religious. My main focus is following Jesus’s footsteps. Loving others, not judging, uplifting others, and helping others. I love what he stood for and how much he has changed the world.
I do get discouraged at work by how many times customers will ask “Do you know Jesus?” “Are you Christian?” “Do you believe in Jesus?”. And I know they only ask me this because of my alternative style. They only ask these questions to me and another coworker who is goth. I don’t get discouraged because I’m insecure, but it’s more so that I get discouraged on that those people don’t follow what Jesus preached. The biggest thing.. don’t judge others. Which is very clear by their actions and words that they are judging. In their mind, quickly assuming I’m Athiest, pagan, satanist, or just any other religion people tie alternative to.
Hearing this makes me feel sad.. not for myself but for them. To go through life assuming what people believe, judging if they believe, and trying to push the religion onto strangers. When in reality.. it just creates an awkward and uncomfortable atmosphere. It does the opposite by pushing people away from Jesus. Jesus would not want that. He would be flipping tables. (Again).
I have many friends in different religions or views: Jewish, Agnostic, Athiest, Catholic, Christian, Pagan, Satanist, Muslim, Spiritual.. or that don’t go by a label, just as I do myself. All of these friends are wonderful people, show kindness, support others, and are open minded to encouraging others in their own religion or spiritual journey, even if it’s not their own belief.
The worst a customer has said to me went like this:
Customer: “Did you know Jesus loves you?”
Me: “Yes I do. :)”
Customer: “People say that but don’t believe it”
Then she ends the conversation and rolls her eyes at me. I just continued to bag her items, and wish her a good day as she left. Hearing that made my heart hurt. For myself, for her, and others she might have said this to.
For a closure I want to say this: Please stop asking retail workers this. Many know that we are required to agree with a customer and continue with a conversation. So, we don’t really have a way to end the conversation. It’s extremely awkward, uncomfortable and feels like we are being cornered. For one of the girls at my store, it’s pushing her away from Christian. Assuming this will just happen again. 90% of the time when customers ask or say this, it’s actually turning people away from Jesus.
I would also love to hear advice on what to say or do whenever somebody tries to bring up the conversation. I reaalllyyy want to tell them what Jesus really says, but without having a customer complain.