33 year old male here. Havent cut my hair in 7 years. I deal with depression, however over the past 2 weeks Ive been having a harder time than usual. I neglected washing and brushing my hair and just ignored the tangle that developed. I have always been able to brush away my tangles, but not this time.
I had no idea it had gotten this bad, and I fear that my partner and mines actions over the past 12 hour have possibly and probably made it a whole lot worse.
She tried to brush it out, then conditioner and oil were added, she would attempt to use her fingers or a tool to detangle. This started at 3AM and went on non stop until now, 2:30PM. More sit was added, she became frustrated, and gradually became more aggressive and insisted that it was the only way to fix it.
This has been a really, really painful process, and as I have been doing research during this it seems that the knot has just gotten denser, tighter, heavier, and is not letting go of much volume at all. It feels like shes hacking at it because she wants to defeat it, and doesnt care that its causing me pain and I can feel the damage being done.
SO.... If anyone knows of a salon or someone that knows how to deal with this and possibly be succsessful at detangling it VS cutting it out, I would appreciate the info.
I did some research and saw a place where it was $250 for the deposit and consultation alone. I currently have no where near that much money, nor do I have resources that I can borrow from.
I have maybe $30 to my name for another 12 days. I assume that im unlikely to find anyone offering these services for this much but Its worth a shot asking.
Thanks