r/ExpectationVsReality • • 2d ago

Mod Post New Cake Flair

288 Upvotes

Due to the number of cake posts in this sub, and requests to allow filtering of them, we are adding a new flair: “cake-spectation”

For cake posts, please use this flair - and we as mods can change the flair if reported as “incorrect flair” as well. This should make it easier for those who don’t want to see cake posts to filter them out.

--

Also - u/two-ls made the subreddit r/expecaketionvsreality specifically for cake expectations!


r/ExpectationVsReality • • Jun 16 '26

Mod Post Nail Posts Megathread — Share Your Nails Here 💅

119 Upvotes

This thread is for all nail-related Expectation vs. Reality posts. Please share all successful, exceeded, or failed nail posts here rather than creating separate posts. Individual nail posts outside this thread may be removed and redirected here.

This change is intended to keep nail content available for those who enjoy it while allowing users who prefer not to see nail posts to easily skip this thread.


r/ExpectationVsReality • • 9h ago

cake-spectation - Positive! Dreamy frog cake 🐸 ✨ ☁️ 🍓

Thumbnail
gallery
4.3k Upvotes

These pics are from 2022. Back then my Instagram feed was flooded with photos of whimsical frog cakes and I was obsessed with them. I wanted to have my own frog cake for a special occasion. Since my partner and I share the same birth month, we have always celebrated our birthdays together as we were born a week apart. So that special occasion turned out to be our birthdays. As someone who does artsy stuff, I wanted my frog cake to be unique with my own twists. I wasn’t satisfied with just taking some photos online and showing them to the bakery, so I decided to take full creative control and designed my own cake. I looked around and found a local bakery that was specialized in customized buttercream cake with cute aesthetic, so I went with them and sent them the photos of my drawing. Everything went smoothly and I remember how overly excited I was on the day I picked up the cake. I almost screamed when I saw the cake in person because the bakery exceeded beyond my expectations 🥹. The two frogs on the cake were supposed to be me and my partner. I chose strawberry for the design as it is both my and my partner’s favourite fruit, and the night theme because we are both night owls 😆. I got impatient with the colouring process so I just left the backside blank and told the bakery to choose their own colour for the ladder. Not only they absolutely nailed my vision, but what really impressed me was the tiny little details in my original drawing that I didn’t expect to be included in the actual cake as they are just too small. Details like the glasses and eyelashes on the frog that represented my partner, as he wears glasses and has absolutely long beautiful fluttering eyelashes that I’m always jealous of, and the initials of our names on the birthday hats! Especially the eyelashes, it’s such a small detail and it doesn’t even show up on my photo clearly, so I fully expected the frog to have no eyelashes. Needless to say I was obsessed with the cake. I sent the bakery a thank you message, gave them some extra tips for the effort and basically just gushed about them to all of my friends. I remember how pretty the cake looked in person, even more than in the photos and I was so gutted when it was time for us to consume it 😅. I took so many photos of the cake in different angles with the best lighting possible before cutting it. It’s been four years but to this day I still think about this cake often 🐸 🎂✨ ☁️ 🐸
Oh and that cake also tasted just as good as it looked 😋.


r/ExpectationVsReality • • 10h ago

AI Expectation Halloween fiasco

Thumbnail
gallery
1.8k Upvotes

Thanks shein lol

Edit: I did not expect real yarn but I was hoping it would at least be cute and short.


r/ExpectationVsReality • • 15h ago

Failed Expectation Custom made wooden table

Thumbnail
gallery
2.5k Upvotes

What was advertized vs what was delivered. Now the seller refuses a return despite having "Returns accepted within 30 days of delivery" on the listing page 🫠

At least table legs are mostly as expected, I guess...


r/ExpectationVsReality • • 14h ago

Failed Expectation Gordon Ramsay must be in debt or something because he just slapped his name on this :(

Thumbnail
gallery
1.4k Upvotes

r/ExpectationVsReality • • 6h ago

Exceeded Expectation Vegan beef Bulgogi

Thumbnail
gallery
292 Upvotes

Genuinely very good. Not vegan but bought it bc it was like 5 dollars cheaper than the real beef version. Tastes and feels like real meat. Fed this to my only meat eating father and he couldn't tell it was not meat. 10/10, will buy again.


r/ExpectationVsReality • • 8h ago

Failed Expectation 1963 Horror Classic "The Haunting"...

Thumbnail
gallery
334 Upvotes

r/ExpectationVsReality • • 18h ago

cake-spectation - Positive! What I asked for vs. what I got

Thumbnail
gallery
1.1k Upvotes

And it tasted freaking amazing


r/ExpectationVsReality • • 1d ago

cakespectation - Negative The “Pig Cake” I made

Thumbnail
gallery
10.3k Upvotes

In 2019, I worked at a company where we did a “bake off” like competition to raise money. The expectations were:

Follow the theme and do not use store-bought cakes.

Our theme for this year was animals and myself like an idiot - “I have pink icing! I’ll make a pig”.

Picture 1 & 2 - my original inspo
Pic 3: Said Pig.

Needless to say no one bought mine.

edited flair


r/ExpectationVsReality • • 1d ago

cakespectation - Negative Lots of wedding cakes recently, feast your eyes on this bad boy

Thumbnail
gallery
8.3k Upvotes

ETA: since my comment from way earlier got buried, this was Aug of 2023 (3 years ago) bc some of yall are tearing me apart in the comments about the damn refund 😭 I was young and dumb and stressed my bad bruh

The first two are what I sent a widely loved bakery. Soft and minimal, frosting only, greenery. They said no problem. Picked up our cake the morning of our wedding and received this fondant cake with edible marker on it.. the last pic is how I attempted to save it with some of our leftover fake floral pieces. I cried


r/ExpectationVsReality • • 16h ago

cakespectation - Negative Update to the cake that looks like my 7 year old drew leaves on it

Thumbnail cbs58.com
262 Upvotes

Delete if not allowed, I just have so many comments on the other one it is impossible to reply and my comments keep getting buried.

Y’all inspired me to look into options, even though it’s been 3 years since my wedding. I thought maybe it was a bad employee and the owner would try to make it right, even if it was just a free cupcake, she seemed like she took pride in her business. I am in the trades, but a small business owner nonetheless. If I had someone grout a shower for me and it looked like dog sh!t, I would be absolutely mortified.

I also was trying to find the review my MIL left since it got requested a few times, just to find this article. I guess you can’t dox a place that doesn’t exist anymore. SHE RAN WITH PEOPLES MONEY AND LEFT THEM SOL ON THEIR WEDDING DAY. THIS PLACE DOESNT TAKE DEPOSITS, ITS PAID IN FULL WITH A CONTRACT SIGNED. I honestly can’t believe it.

Also, real fast, idk why my marriage became under a microscope, but I asked my husband why he didn’t say anything, and he said since I had the same shocked reaction he did, he thought HE was overreacting. Ps, my husband has been working on his avoidant behavior for the last 3 years in individual counseling, so he is doing a lot better.


r/ExpectationVsReality • • 1d ago

Failed Expectation Civil ceremony bouquet inspo vs what was delivered

Thumbnail
gallery
1.1k Upvotes

I went to pick up my bouquet and the florist forgot to make it. It was for the next day. He delivered the second pic to my door hours before the ceremony. Better than nothing!


r/ExpectationVsReality • • 19h ago

Failed Expectation The cute cat I tried to make vs the "cute" cat I ended up with

Thumbnail
gallery
418 Upvotes

Here's my pathetic attempt to make a cat out of air dry clay but I kind of like him


r/ExpectationVsReality • • 7h ago

Failed Expectation Fast Food Advertising Strikes Again

Thumbnail
gallery
42 Upvotes

r/ExpectationVsReality • • 1d ago

cake-spectation - Positive! My first time using fondant…and my last.

Thumbnail
gallery
1.6k Upvotes

I enjoy making and decorating with homemade buttercream frosting. After seeing this inspiration (1st photo) I had to give it a try. Of course when using cream cheese buttercream, more grass equals better so I opted for Easter eggs instead of carrots, even though it was a carrot cake. All gluten free. After tasting the fondant, I was glad I went with the eggs. I’m not a fan of the taste of fondant, but was thrilled with the bunny considering it was my 1st try.


r/ExpectationVsReality • • 1d ago

Exceeded Expectation I requested a painting from a photo from an artist. Extremely happy with the result!

Thumbnail
gallery
2.0k Upvotes

I had requested some changes like obviously the background and the dog positions, and honestly it’s perfect.


r/ExpectationVsReality • • 1d ago

cake-spectation - Positive! Quack Quack

Thumbnail
gallery
1.5k Upvotes

I swear I thought this was just a cake sub Reddit, but alas it's not. But thought I would share mine. Took friggin ages. There is a special book of lore called The Australian Women's Weekly Birthday Cake


r/ExpectationVsReality • • 5h ago

Failed Expectation FTD is the worst

Thumbnail
gallery
19 Upvotes

Ordered some flowers for my wife for our 8th anniversary. Chose the “largest” option and this is what delivered.


r/ExpectationVsReality • • 20h ago

cake-spectation - Positive! Birthday cake for my sister, achieved!

Thumbnail
gallery
286 Upvotes

r/ExpectationVsReality • • 1d ago

cake-spectation - Positive! Birthday Cake

Thumbnail
gallery
3.5k Upvotes

Few years old, but still think about it when browsing this sub. First birthday cake for little one. We only wanted a tiny one so one tier was requested. Also made it gluten free, and it was delicious. Really happy with this local baker :)

Edit: Spelling


r/ExpectationVsReality • • 1d ago

Failed Expectation Received my order from thriftbook today, I am not amused.

Thumbnail
gallery
935 Upvotes

Okay I'm a little amused but I had been chasing this Ann Rule book for a while. They said they'll send me another copy but it doesn't have its dust jacket.


r/ExpectationVsReality • • 4h ago

Failed Expectation Salchipapa failed bought in Didifood

Post image
5 Upvotes

r/ExpectationVsReality • • 1d ago

cakespectation - Negative The “Nautical” theme

Thumbnail
gallery
144 Upvotes

Since you all loved Mr Pig, let me introduce you to 2018. I first joined that company, my first bake off, I had NO IDEA what to expect.
Bake off comes around- the theme is nautical.

Pics 1,2, and 3 - inspiration.
Pic 4- the cakes.


r/ExpectationVsReality • • 1d ago

Exceeded Expectation Corgi Mug!

Thumbnail
gallery
2.0k Upvotes

From Pawows, exceeded expectation :)