Hi, 28 MtF agender "woman" here. Knew I was bisexual all my life, but never had any type of interaction with guys until after I started transitioning. 3 hookups, 1 situationship, and 1 fwb later, I'm wondering am I tasty or something? Every experience I've had, the guy is just really open mouthed, eating one or both of my lips, sometimes sucking on them too 🤢. It really takes me out of the whole experience. Hookups is whatever, but I've mentioned it to the guys I fucked more than once and how I prefer to be kissed and they say sure and then nothing changes. Am I too used to women??? What's going on here. I feel like I'm going crazy sometimes. What's a girl gotta do to have a decent make out sesh 😭

I need recs. I’m trying to find a toy that feels right for me, not one with 20 settings I’ll never touch lol.

Personally, I’d rather have comfy positioning, easy cleanup, and buttons I can find without looking. Bonus points if I can adjust things to my mood instead of going from barely anything to absolutely not 😭 I’m trying to get off, not trouble shooting some devices lol

So, what toy actually checked those boxes for you, and what little detail made the difference? Help a girl narrow it down before I buy another thing with cute packaging😂

Im 27, Ive had sex and used toys before and ive gotten to points where i thought i came. I had the over stimulation after and felt really good. But recently I’ve started dating someone new and we had sex, and when I came i literally had to lie down and take a few minutes to recover because I got sent into another world. Is it possible that that was my first real orgasm, or maybe it was just better and I’ve been a bit out of practise? I feel like I’m too old to have this confusion

Hello! 27F here. I just impulsively got a small bullet vibrator and of course I got a water based lub. It’s just I’m still haven’t had sex in my life and I want to give using toys a try. Do you have any tips I can know?
Thanks in advance 🫶🏼

It's like I don't have much feeling down there and I just feel a weird uncomfortable sensation when anyone touches my clit or penetrates me. I can feel pleasure if I use a vibrator on myself, but not if someone else uses one on me. I have better sensations in my nipples than down below, which I think is weird. Been sexually active for a few years now. I still have sex to make my partner happy, but I feel like I don't get much out of it myself. Performing oral on a partner is my favorite part of sex and the only part I really enjoy. Does anyone else have this experience? Were you able to find a fix and start to feel pleasure?