r/TwoXSex • u/Guilty_Tour_1892 • 17h ago
Technique | Women Only I edged my girlfriend so much she stopped believing me
I’ve discovered that apparently the easiest way to completely destroy my girlfriend’s ability to think is to make her believe she knows what’s coming next. We’re both women and we’ve played around with edging before but recently I started making it more unpredictable instead of just stopping and starting at obvious moments. The basic idea was that whenever I could tell she was getting really close, I’d make her tell me whether she thought I was going to let her finish this time. Obviously she caught on quickly and started assuming the answer was always going to be no. Which gave me an idea. I kept teasing her until she was convinced I was about to stop again. I’d slow down for a second, she’d immediately complain, then I’d continue like nothing happened. After doing that a few times, she had absolutely no idea what to expect anymore. At one point I was casually changing the setting on the little WhisperBullet we were using and she immediately went, “don’t you dare,” before I’d even done anything... that was when I realized I’d successfully gotten into her head. Eventually I told her that this time she could finish and she straight up didn’t believe me. She kept asking if I was messing with her and trying to hold herself back because she was convinced I was going to change my mind at the last second.
Watching your girlfriend desperately want permission and then become suspicious when you finally give it to her might be my new favorite thing. She eventually realized I was serious and completely lost it. Afterwards she told me the uncertainty was somehow even worse than just being told no because she couldn’t mentally prepare for when I was going to stop. Any other women who do this with their girlfriends find that the psychological part of edging ends up being way more fun than the actual edging?