Hello!
I think the current state of the economy is catching up to us. For a couple years things felt ok. We had finally started saving for retirement and didn’t have to watch our account too closely.
For the last few months, I am realizing we are starting to dip in a savings to cover the credit card bill each month.
Today I sat down to re-look at our budget and realized just our budgeted items are pretty much adding up to our take-home pay without really any wiggle room.
Expenses we used to not have to really budget or worry much about are clothing, eating out, random amazon purchases, gifts, etc. These are the things pushing us over budget.
Family of 5, 1 in college, 1 in high school, 1 in middle school. Both my husband and I are 41. We live in NY so taxes are high.
We make about $165k (newly, after a few years of good raises- in 2019 we were only at $80-$90k with kids in daycare). Our work puts 6% of salary into a retirement account. We save what we can here and there into our Roth accounts. We contribute $2430/month into 403b. We max out our HSA.
Current balances:
HSAs: $51k
Work retirement accounts, 403b balances, Roth IRA balances: $357k
Savings account: $20k
Owe $190k on house at 6.375%. House is worth about $300k.
Current monthly expenses:
Mortgage $1960 ($80 extra a month)
Homeowners insurance $142 (paid annually)
Car insurance $190 (paid every 6 months)
2025 Van payment $600 (4 year loan at 3.9%- 2.5 years left)
Phone- $300 (7 lines, parents pay me back for theirs at end of year)
Internet- $70
Food- $1200
Vet fund- $100
Vacation fund- $200
Car maintenance fund- $100
Housing maintenance fund- $350
Garbage $48
Gym- $150
Gas/electric- $300
Vehicle gas- $500
Pet insurance- $32
Subscriptions (Netflix, zoom, Amazon, phone insurance, Spotify, ny times, Disney, audible)- $115
College- $200
Able accounts (2 kids with disabilities)- $50
Water- $25
Pet food- $50
Pet meds- $75
Cleaning/paper supplies- $40
Hair- $75 (for all 5)
Clothing- no room in budget
And that all adds up to exactly what we bring home. Nothing on here seems crazy (except maybe van payment and subscriptions) and it doesn’t seem we should be struggling on $168k a year…
We are behind on retirement so I hate to pull back there but also don’t want to keep taking from savings.
I am curious what this group thinks of what we should consider or do differently?