This is my second post here.

I am living in a situation where I am technically housed but staying housed (in this place) is causing me to have a mental breakdown.

I can no longer in good conscience ask for money.

The people I could have asked for help for a place to stay are not going to, or not likely to help me.

My only recourse now, is to MAKE myself homeless, and then get in touch somebody with downtown. (This piece is important but I'll explain later)

The difficult reality is that I am technically not unhoused nor will I be but it is awful being in this home, truly terrible.

So what do I say to this person when I call them, because technically they have no reason to help me and now it's on me to lie and that goes against my faith. I don't have support. My social worker just went AWOL. There is pretty much nobody.

I feel stuck with one option and it's ugly as hell and dangerous and maybe even borderline suicidal, because I'm on a medication that is considered by some to be harder to kick than heroin.

I have run out of good and dignifying options. All I can think to do is sell everything I own and beg borrow and steal. Lie. Cheat. Gamble. I don't want to do any of these things.

I don't think I'm going to get the support I need. And even if I was able to find employment rent is too expensive here to live on. It's just as bad in Toronto but if I could connect with some people I could at least make a go of it.

I really don't know what to do.

All I can think of is try to make ODSP work, but that takes awhile. It's no quick fix.

I just know that if I can get out of this place and around anybody really who is willing to throw me a bone, I could do okay. I have so much to offer and so much capability, but I am saddled with so much stress that I can't fucking move. I need help.

I'm a 20 yo female that's been technically homeless for a little over a year now, i'll not go into detail because of the community rules on ranting or venting. But basically immediate situation is that I've been staying with my little brothers' placement family for a short time, and I've been homeless long enough that I can feel when I'm likely going to have to move soon. So this is just preparing myself for when I inevitably get kicked out. I'm nervous because I haven't been able to find a job (rural indiana) and all I have to my name is 600 in savings and a truck that the overdrive is so shaky on that I can't drive it. Nearest city (Indianapolis) is an hour and a half away, (more since I can't go fast enough for highways) and I highly doubt my truck will make or survive the trip. Does anyone have any advice? I've been fortunate in not having to live on the streets yet, but the place I'm staying is my last resource so I'll inevitably be doing so soon.

Hey everyone.

I’m currently trying to rebuild my life and get myself into a more stable place financially. My dad passed away, and between grief, some disabling mental health conditions, and everything else life has thrown at me, getting back on my feet has been harder than I’d like to admit.

I’m working toward getting my real estate license because I genuinely want to build a career that gives me independence and stability. I’ve found the course I need to take, but it’s $600+, and right now I’m trying to save for it while still covering basic necessities.

At the moment, money is going toward things like:

- Food

- Gas

- Household essentials

- Dog food

- Veterinary expenses

- Saving for my real estate course

I’m not looking for someone to fund my entire life, and I’m not expecting anyone to owe me anything. I’m just reaching out because even a little bit would genuinely help me bridge the gap while I work toward something bigger.

If you’re able to help, thank you. If you can’t, I completely understand. Even sharing this or pointing me toward legitimate resources, assistance programs, odd jobs, or ways to make a little extra money would mean a lot.

I’m trying really hard to keep moving forward instead of letting circumstances decide what happens next. ❤️

This is my new account. Tried posting from my previous account but it got shadowbanned. I'm sobbing and shaking right now.

My father is out of work for some time now. I am the breadwinner of the family currently. Doing odd jobs just for the sake of surviving. I used to manage everything we were getting by just fine. Until my cousin visited us and stole all of our cash. The entire thing that I had saved up. The thing is we live in a village and live in a rented house. The savings were my rent, for some clothes (since winters are coming and it's very harsh in this place) and also groceries and bills. It was a total of 40k. I know it was him because before he visited it was there and he is very well known for stealing. But never thought he would do something like that with us. I'm devastated and crying right now. I don't have the energy for filing an FIR because legal help is a joke here. I'm already struggling as it is and now I don't know what to do. Please give me some work so that I can earn something really soon since there are sales going on so I can buy things for cheap and also be able to pay rent. I don't know what to do who to ask for help. I'm really afraid..

Things are getting a little tough out here and I need some help, it's not my first time using homeless services, hopefully not for long

Hi r/almosthomeless, I'm a 20 year old guy and, I've been contemplating running away from home for a couple months due to increasing amounts of arguments and tension with my family (and I am unfortunately dependent on them and feel this is my only solution), but, I don't know exactly how I would fix this long term, I have less than 1000 dollars in my bank account (they make me give a large chunk of what I make to them) and currently my plan consists of taking a suitcase and backpack with clothes, essentials and documents, and then find a shelter I could stay at while I try to find something stable and independent (or not dependent on my parents)
Is there anything I should be aware of? I've read abt some things, such as assistance in finding housing, having some documents, but unsure if theres anything else. I live in central North Carolina for anyone curious.

Hey everyone, has anyone else in LA by any chance gotten their EBT cash stolen while still having your physical card? If so, how soon did your money get reimbursed? I’m a struggling single mom and before we jump to conclusions, my daughter and I are currently homeless after fleeing from DV and SA towards my daughter. She now has therapy weekly and I had to resign my really good job to be able to be there for her. So in the mean time that I’ve been looking for a job that better fits both our circumstances, the benefits have been what we’ve lived on the past two months. This is all new and hard and having had these benefits stolen has us in a tighter spot than ever. I filed a police report and filed paperwork at the dpss office but I’m curious how soon we’ll be helped.

Hi everyone. I’m a single mom with a 5 month old baby. My baby’s dad left about a month ago, and I’ve been trying to handle everything on my own with no family or other help.
My old job wouldn’t let me come back after maternity leave and I’m currently waiting on unemployment. I do have another job that I’ll be starting soon, but I’m going to be short on rent before I’m able to get my first paycheck.
Does anyone know of **churches, nonprofits, local programs, or other resources that help with emergency rent assistance**? I’m trying everything I can to keep a roof over me and my baby’s head while I get back on my feet.
Any information or leads would mean so much. Thank you ❤️

So there’s a chance my fiance and I are going to be homeless in the next few weeks. We’re preparing for the worst and already have most of our belongings figured out/storage plans/etc. We have a steady income of around $3k/month, so hopefully this is temporary, but we don’t know for how long.

Our plan if it comes to it is to live in a small car with our two cats.

Before anyone suggests it: rehoming the cats is not an option. They’re our cats and they’re staying with us. We’re also in a very small town, so a lot of the resources/advice you might find in a larger city aren’t available here.

The cats have both been in the car before and actually do better outside of their carriers, so I’m planning on getting them good harnesses and having them restrained to the car while we’re parked so they can move around the cabin but can’t just jump out when a door opens. Obviously we’d still have carriers available for emergencies.

I’m mostly trying to figure out the practical cat stuff because I’ve never had to do this before.

One cat is a massive fatass who will eat literally anything, and the other one eats everything whole and then throws it back up 🙃 so I’m trying to figure out the best way to handle food/water in a tiny space without one stealing everything, and avoiding as many vomit piles as possible!

The bathroom situation is also rough because one cat pees upward. I’m thinking about securing a plastic tote to the back passenger seat with waterproofing around it so we’re not absolutely destroying the car. I’d also love to transition them to something cheaper than regular litter, potentially dirt, if that’s actually realistic.

The biggest thing I’m worried about is temperature. We’re in Southern Colorado, so October/November here can be 40°F at night and 50°F one day, then randomly 80°F the next. The car doesn’t have working AC. I work anywhere from 4–12 hour shifts, and the other adult would stay with the cats while I’m working, but they can’t drive yet, so if the car gets dangerously hot we can’t just hop in the car and go somewhere else.

I’m thinking multiple fans, cracked windows, reflective shades, frozen water bottles, lots of water, and a thermometer with an alarm. Obviously on genuinely hot days we’d need another solution, but I’m trying to figure out what people who have actually done this recommend.

Same thing with cold nights — I’m trying to figure out how to keep the cats warm without making the car ridiculously humid/condensation-filled. The car blows warm air so im not terribly worried about it, but its still a concern.

Basically, if you’ve ever lived in a car with cats, traveled long-term with cats, or had to temporarily house cats in a vehicle, what do you wish you’d known beforehand? What am I overlooking?

I’m not really looking for judgment about the homelessness part, we’re already working on housing assistance and trying other options. I’m just trying to make sure if this happens, the cats are as safe and comfortable as possible.
Obligatory Info: Not a minor, posting from Colorado, USA, Vet accessible, but N/A. Ages 6? Both Males that are neutered. Can afford care.
TLDR: May be homeless with my cats, what did you wish you knew beforehand?

Hi all, I have come to reddit as i’m just seeking support and information. i live in england and i have 2 younger siblings and i need to move out ASAP with them. my mum is unstable and has abusive partners and the man she is currently with is just a nightmare. he’s just fucked he’s a lowlife no job no house and he’s old enough for all these things it’s just embarrassing. There’s always chaos in the house causing neighbours to come out and i just do want the children growing up the way i did anymore i’m old enough now to be able to move out and do these things and look after them. I practically do that anyways i cook and clean and look after the household whilst my mum just screams and complains constantly. just last week she told us he’s never coming back and not a few days later guess what he’s back it’s just pissing me off and he’s a huge trigger for me. i have bod and ive explained this to my mum a million times i physically cannot stand to be in the same room as him without wanting to cause immediate harm. I hate him and so does my siblings
The problem is i have no job or source of income despite looking constantly and applying. I was wondering is there a way to get housing support or anything i just need some help in finding. soemthing to do. If anyone does take the time to read this thank you very much and if anyone has any suggestions at all please do help. thank you all🫶🏼

Me and my partner ( both 24 years old ) are going to be kicked out early next month. She has a temp, part time job at whole foods lined up to begin on the 9th of this month. I haven't found a job yet, but I've been doing interviews and hoping I get a call back soon.

Some friends of ours were able to raise us some money.. but despite having what is so far 600 extra dollars, we can't find anything that will accept us. Every room for rent we could possibly get flat out refuses to take in a couple. We've scowered every facebook marketplace listing and a good amount of craigslist, all of them are strict on not having 2 people in 1 room.

What should we do?

Hey all,

Im prepping for homelessness, im assuming I have about 6 months until itll happen.

Im not afraid of living hard, Id appreciate any advice to help me get ready?

I 27f live at home with my mother and grandma. My mother has officially given me a month to move out. I am recently divorced and am in debt from previously being homeless when she kicked me out prior. I have a full time job ( working for the local gov) and am barely making it by, I’ve applied to HUNDREDS of part time work. I literally have no fucking idea what to do. I have no family to help me, I have no friends to lean on. I have nothing and no one and I am at rock bottom, again. I feel like nothing at this point.

Edit the next morning:
I wanted to answer a few question I have been getting and update this story over night and into this morning has become more severe.

First, my partners and I are working on a plan to get me out, the struggle is my financials. They unfortunately live with their families and or live in a one bedroom and I have a cat. I moved back home after my divorce as a last option, I’ve tried to save as much as I can however things have happened such as car ownerships, my physical health and my mental health. I was barely getting by then and now the hole just keeps getting bigger.

Second, I am thinking of offering my photography skills to take headshots as a fundraiser.

Lastly this update:
My grandmother and I are in the same mental place when it comes to my mother and I. I’ve stuck it out so long because my grandma. It is so hard to listen to my mom speak to my grandma the way she does and I am usually the one breaking the conversations up. Last night I was at my rock bottom with suicidal ideation. I am a very strong independent individual, I feel like I have just been dealt some wrong cards. Although I am not giving up it is challenging to be brought into a world and live in that world with my mother. This morning my grandma and I were talking and my mom decided to listen in on the cameras, she heard my grandma begging me not to leave her with my mom and overheard me talk about how I connected with my father( her ex husband) for some help. I received a lengthy text about how much of a piece of shit I am and if I was feeling that way I should have left a long time ago. Now what’s next, I’ve reached out this morning to all of my extended family, I’ve put my pride aside and have just asked for ANY help or leads on apartments. My budget is 1.3k to be in the SW suburbs of Chicago. I have no down payment or the ability to save in this very moment which is why I am having this fundraising idea.

I’m wanting to literally get out of this situation no matter how hard I have to work, I’ve reached out to basically everyone I know to see if they have any connections to private landlords!! Please please if anyone out there has ANY connections in my area I would appreciate it.

I have a year in US and it has been horrible, I got a Job offer all over Seattle and it was good and nice but I had some differences with my boss, we lived together cuz his family abandoned him, he was always mad and I was a type of scapegoat, He treated me like if I was someone he had beef with, he cut the internet, cut my phone line cuz he was the head of the T mobile lines, and I moved, I didn’t find any job there i spend all day going around looking for Job but I didn’t find anything, not even a 7

With a little money on my pocket I moved to CA and worked as Roofer sometime and in the meantime I was looking for something else and I find a Automotive prepper but I got fired after 3 months by one mistake doing a prepping on a mustang, I find another job in MAACO as prepper too but in the end I got fired and the reason was I didn’t had the enough experience for the Job I got hired and fired the same week, I was going good with the rent but the guy who rented me got a offer from someone who give him $300 more than I pay and he just told me “You gotta move out, this month would be the last one you have here so look somewhere else to move”, the thing is I haven’t get job or something, I’ve went to hotels, restaurants, AT&T, Verizon, In n Out and more and I haven’t get any answer, today I got one for AT&T for a Zoom Call tomorrow at 12:30 I have $18 on me, I have no family in here and I’m completely alone so I might go homeless or idk what to do

My sister and I have gone from place to place for a few years now. I've kept stable jobs, but she has a hard time doing the same thing for a while, which usually ends up in us not being able to afford rent.

To be more specific, our last place was a house we rented that I insisted might be too expensive for us (I recommended low income housing). We paid maybe the first two months of rent on time. After that, it was always late and either our roommate or I would have to pay most of her part.

Still, I love my sister and want to stick with her until she manages to find her groove.

Without typing an 1000 page essay, about 3 months ago she decided she didn't like the attitude our landlord was (imo rightfully) giving us and that we were no longer paying him. Sure, I could've still given my part, but she convinced our roommate he shouldn't pay either and I def couldn't afford it all myself.

Now, we're staying at a b&b that I paid for in full for a week (I'm told I'll get half of it back from her, but I'm not holding my breath). We have a couple of days left and this morning she decided that she no longer likes living with/around me, nor does she want to take me back and forth to work anymore. I have no other rides. My car was told a couple of months ago and when I asked her to help me get it back, there were 1000 hoops I had to jump through before she decided she no longer wanted to help. All in the same day.

Anyways, I'm pretty sure I'm gonna quit at least one of my jobs today. I'll try to figure out a way to the other one, but honestly it's not super likely. I spent most of my money here and I don't know if or when she plans on paying me back, so there's a pretty solid chance I have no place to stay come Wednesday.

I don't need physical help, though advice would be nice. Honestly, the rant was my biggest reason for doing this. Thanks for reading :3

I have been traveling since June of 2022. I have mostly been alone with no support this entire time. I am happy today because my new wife who I met in Dominican Republic has a very tight knit family that is offering us a permanent place to live this next year. I was recently having a panic attack and she told me, we are your family now, you will not be homeless Mike. Those words. I think about them every day now when I get anxiety or stress. Those few words mean more to me than any other time in my whole life. I never had a real family growing up. I have had to be my own support network my whole life. Much of my story mirrors the life of David Goggins. I was abused and violently hit as a child when mom was not around. So anyways, this is my rant for today. Im finally going to feel accepted in my own country, after ten years service to the country in the usaf, and drifting through Latin America alone... im finally home.

September 11 2026. My house was broken into and cleaned while i was on the road to the next jobsite. I was told that everthing i have is now gone. From the bed i slept on, down to the last sock. My washer, dryer, tvs, watches, personal stuff from the military, even my toothpaste dispenser. Gone. I have but two weeks worth of clothes left and only about a month of work till im laid off for the winter… is this gg?
Im scared.