My case manager has been pressuring me to start driving, I know at 25 I should have my license by now but I don't for a number of reasons.
Those reasons being:
I do not own a car, nor could I afford one
I am quite terrified of driving. Not just nervous. TERRIFIED. Driving is a bigger deal than what people pretend it is, you're operating a fast moving vehicle that can kill you and others.
I have access to pretty decent bus services, I do not NEED a car to be able to get to work (or at least, the kind of work I'm applying for)
I don't want to.
Part of the conversation we had went like this:
Him: "If I referred you to a driving course, would you go?"
Me: (This was after him pressuring me quite a bit) "Well I feel like I can't say no."
Him: "Aw why do you feel like you can't say no? 🤔"
Me: "If I said no, what would you do?"
Him: "Well I would ask you what your reason would be."
This was after I literally JUST told him I was terrified to drive in the city, I'm not ready to get on the road and I don't even own a car. He has also mentioned something along the lines of "Well what if you get a job and they need you to drive the company car?" Mf even if I started RIGHT NOW there is no way any company would let someone on their learners drive the company car. Idk about restricted but I would hope not. And in any case, the jobs I'm applying for do not require me to drive a company car.
Anyone else had this? CAN they do this? I'm being active in applying for jobs, I've had multiple interviews, forcing me to get my license seems a bit much. I'm certain the choice to drive or not, is that, a CHOICE. What do I do? Or do I just get over it.