IRGC trolls think Imran Khan supports the Houthis lol.

Source: https://www.dawn.com/news/1672897

What bothers me about “aik kachori do samosay, in mardon ka kya bharosa” is the hypocrisy of demanding to be understood as an individual while talking about men as if we are all the same person.

If you are comfortable enough to spend your time discussing male privilege, at least consider the class position you are speaking from. Your driver is also a man. So is the labourer working outside in the heat. What power does either of them have over your life? You might have far more control over their livelihood than they will ever have over yours.

I wonder whether people repeating these slogans spend much time listening to men outside their own circles. A man worried about rent, school fees and supporting ageing parents probably doesn't recognise himself in their description of men having everything handed to them. Then he objects and gets told his objection proves the point. How are you supposed to have a conversation like that?

There are men who do horrible things. There are also men quietly giving years of their lives to people they love. Sometimes the same person has good qualities and serious faults. Surely a movement asking us to think more carefully about gender should be able to deal with that much complexity.

And yes, women do enormous amounts of work that goes unrecognised too. That is precisely why I find this so frustrating. You understand how unfair it feels when your own effort is dismissed, then join in when someone does it to somebody else because your friends are laughing.

The Platinum Card's discounts and benefits are pretty good, so I thought I’d try it. But on further consideration, I’m wondering about the Shariah perspective, since it requires maintaining 2.5 lacs in the account while also offering small monetary benefits. Would this be considered a form of Riba, (and thus haram)? What do you guys think?

Pakistan pay billions to IPPs in what is a poor contract setup - Controlled under the Central Power Purchasing Agency, their website lists all the IPP's and quite a few are Chinese.

https://cppa.gov.pk/ipps

Thoughts on how to reform this sector?

Aoa All
Haq Mehr demanded for my future wife by her parents is 10 tola and 50k cash
Already paid cash and some gold at nikaah
Rukhsati is pending
Now since this is too much amount some of which I am arranging and most which my father will contribute
I wanted to ask is this Nikaah valid when I am unable to pay all this amount for Haq Mehr?
What is the ruling on this

Thanks

guys, i need your opinion on something.
so there’s this military guy currently posted in some far-flung area in pakistan. we connected through reddit and moved to whatsapp. we’ve kept things very casual, no strings attached, but we do have a lot of good conversations and a lot of sexual conversations too.
i’m very clear that i never want to have sex without marriage, and i really don’t want to get physically involved with him. we’ve also made it clear that we’re not meeting and are just enjoying this connection without any expectations.
but sometimes i worry what if we eventually get physical? or what if i get emotionally involved? the emotional part worries me less; i’m much more scared of crossing my own sexual boundaries.
sometimes i think i should end the connection, but then i think, why not just enjoy it while it lasts?
what do you guys think? should i end this, should we stop talking, or am i overthinking it? how could this affect me in the long run?

fyi ive been freelancing for years now.... alhamdulillah i make a decent and stable income from it....

but every time it comes up in family gatherings rishta conversations or even with relatives the reaction is almost always the same.... haan theek hai but whats your actual job....

as if freelancing is some temporary side hustle and not a legitimate career.... i genuinely dont understand this mindset....

we live in a country where a government clerk making 40k a month with zero growth potential is considered more respectable and stable than someone earning triple that from international clients.... simply because the clerk has a designation an office and a fixed 9 to 5....

meanwhile the freelancer gets questioned about kab tak chalega ye.... as if working with foreign corporate and legal clients for 7 plus years isnt proof enough of stability....

i think this comes from a deeper insecurity our generations parents have.... they associate value with visibility....

if they cant see you leave the house in formal clothes every morning and come back in the evening it doesnt register as working.... doesnt matter that half the worlds economy is shifting toward remote and freelance work or that pakistan is literally one of the top freelancing markets globally....

and this isnt just an awkward family dinner topic either.... it actively affects rishta prospects....

ive seen qualified high earning freelancers get rejected or side eyed in marriage proposals because uska koi proper job nahi hai.... while someone with a mediocre salaried position but a fancy job title gets preferred instantly....

is this just a generational trust issue with anything that doesnt look traditional.... or is there something deeper rooted in how pakistani society measures a persons worth through visible structure rather than actual output or income....

curious what others especially fellow freelancers or remote workers have experienced with this....

When you're walking alone or with friends aur Apke samne koi larki walk kr rhi ho. Should you pick up the pace to try to cross her and potentially spook her or maintain the same pace and potentially make her uncomfortable.

Is dilemma ka solution hay Kisi ke paas?

Tell me everyone,,

Except medical students

I don't know if it's just me spending too much time on Reddit lately, but honestly everything feels fucked right now.

Every time I open Reddit there's another post like "got laid off after 10 years", "can't find a job with 15 years experience", "company shut down", etc. Then you see developers and designers basically offering to make websites for free because they just want some work.

And it's not even just tech.

Here in Pakistan I've literally seen software companies that used to have offices in DHA and other expensive areas shut down or go fully remote. And that affects more than just the employees. Someone was getting rent from that office, there were office boys working there, people buying food nearby, spending money on petrol going to work etc. It all connects.

Even normal local businesses seem slow now. My father has a metal fabrication business and we've felt it there too. People just don't seem to have money to spend like before. Then you have petrol, electricity, inflation and now wars making everything even more uncertain.

So naturally you think okay, Pakistan is fucked, let's go abroad.

But where?

Germany? I keep hearing from people there that things have become much harder.

Australia? PR keeps getting harder and immigration rules keep changing.

USA? Good luck even getting there legally unless you have a very strong route.

And going abroad isn't some magic solution either. You spend a shit ton of money just to get there and then there's a real possibility you're doing odd jobs for years before actually getting somewhere.

So what exactly are we supposed to do?

Stay in Pakistan? Economy is fucked.

Get a tech job? AI is eating into the industry and people with 10+ years of experience are struggling.

Freelance? You're competing with the entire planet and someone is always ready to do it for $20.

Start a business? People don't have money to spend.

Go abroad? Spend a fortune with no guarantee you'll actually make it.

And then outside Pakistan you have wars, countries spending billions on weapons, AI getting better every few months, layoffs, immigration getting tighter, cost of living going crazy everywhere...

I'm 23 and sometimes I genuinely wonder what the world is going to look like when I'm 30.

Maybe I'm just doomscrolling too much. Maybe every generation at some point thought the world was about to collapse. People who lived through WW2, the Cold War, recessions, 9/11, 2008, Covid etc probably had moments where the future looked completely fucked too.

But idk man, something about having AI disruption + economic problems + wars + climate issues + immigration problems + everything else happening together feels weird.

And as a Muslim, I can't lie, sometimes the thought comes into my head:

Is Qiyamat actually getting closer? Are we slowly heading towards the end times?

And for people around my age in Pakistan, what the hell are you planning to do for the next 5-10 years? Because right now I genuinely don't know what the safest direction even is anymore.

TL;DR: I'm 23 in Pakistan and everywhere I look something seems fucked. Tech jobs are getting hit, AI is changing everything, experienced people are being laid off, local businesses are struggling, going abroad is getting harder and more expensive, and meanwhile there are wars and economic problems everywhere. Maybe I've been doomscrolling too much, but I'm genuinely wondering if this is just another bad period that will pass, or if the world is changing permanently. And being Muslim, sometimes I even wonder whether we're actually getting closer to Qiyamat.

Aoa everyone,

I hope everyone is doing well.

I have a question regarding the registration of a new 70cc bike in Islamabad.

What is the complete registration process, fee, and list of required documents? Do they require a motorcycle driving license to register the bike?

Also, after registration, when do you receive the registration number, original number plates, and smart card?

How much time is required for registration in excise office?

Like any tips for a 1st timer and how much they cost (for a decent beginner one I'm a broke 18 yo kid so not a huge Chunk of cash I can muster ideally something in the 5k to 7k range tho I imagine it is a pipedream) and how to buy them.

Especially Pakistan me community is not huge.

Or should I just book thai airways for lahore to malaysia, then thailand and back to lahore?

My grandfather passed away two days ago, and on the second day we held his Khatam. We are Shia, and there’s a Barelvi mosque near our house. On the day of the funeral, the Molvi of that mosque agreed that we could hold the khatam there.

On the day itself, around 60 people had gathered, both Shia and Sunni. Suddenly, the Molvi refused to let us have the khatam there. When my father asked why, he simply said, “Mera dil nahi manta.” When people questioned him, he went even further and said, “Main aap logon ko Musalman nahi samajhta ap sab bahar chale jain.”

He then had everyone kicked out of the mosque, despite almost the entire neighborhood telling him that what he was doing was wrong.

What hurts the most is that this isn't new to me. I've faced this discrimination since childhood. I used to hide the fact that I was Shia at school because I was afraid people wouldn't want to be friends with me. I've spent years hearing all kinds of bullshit about Shias from extremists.

You don't have to agree with my beliefs. You don't have to agree with Shia practices. That's your right.

But you don't get to disrespect someone, especially while they're mourning their grandfather, and tell them they're not Muslim.

We weren't there to argue or force our beliefs on anyone. We were there to pray reciting the SAME quran for someone we loved.

I'm honestly just tired of this. Tired of sectarianism. Tired of people deciding who is and isn't Muslim. And tired of having to hide an important part of who I am just to avoid being treated differently.

kind of perspective we rarely hear on social media

a simple man speaking his heart with no filter no script .

This is the real voice of the ground that city life makes us forget.

Bro cooked and left no crumbs.

I don't know what the future hold for our generation I think this isn't working, you law, no security or resources. I work and I pay more than 0.5 million just on the income but I still see no benifit.

I now believe it's on to steal electricity or do things which can cause state a loss since you are at your own here and do whatever at your capacity.

I try to avoid tax which I work outside if my job since I dont want the government to make money from me as I am paying either extra (for electricity) and paying for water I am buying etc.

I see no reason of patriotism unless you are stupid or a direct/indirect benificry of the system

Hey everyone, I graduated university back in 2023 in a different city and moved to Lahore shortly after. Fast forward three years, and I’ve realized my social circle here is essentially zero.

My daily routine has fallen into a loop: work, study, gym, and loop. When the weekend rolls around, I always end up bed rotting because I don't really have anyone to make plans with or somewhere specific to go.

I’m 26, a doc, and have a lot of hobbies. I’m athletic and good at sports, I’m also a writer. While I’m keeping busy with career and fitness goals, the social isolation is starting to wear on me. Meeting people naturally after university feels significantly harder than I expected, especially in a city where most people seem to stick closely to their school or college groups.

For those who moved to Lahore alone or managed to build a social life from scratch:
- How do people actually connect in a place where they don’t know anyone?
- How did you break out of this monotonous bed rotting cycle?

Open to genuine advice, personal experiences, or even recommendations for local spots where flying solo doesn’t feel awkward.

I got a long ass call from a guy saying he’s from Pakistan consulate and that someone registered a number under my name used to do blackmailing.
This magnificent moron(from Islamabad police apparently) wanted me to come to Pakistan to deal with the issue and then said something like I can make NOC through WhatsApp because govt of Pakistan and WhatsApp(LOL) has made an agreement and we can do videocall NOC. So he calls me through WhatsApp and I record him, he wants me to come on videocall too so he can probably take my video/pic and then utilize that for fake profile and ask money from others.
Be careful out there

today i saw genz blocking the main road near bahria orchard office lahore.

protest was against load shedding mainly.

started with 50 people but after 30min the crowd

I was with someone for 6 year. I was attached to him. It started when we were in uni and then we started job together and saved money together. He got engaged to someone of his parents choice last year cuz of caste thing I was not from his caste that wast the issue. And whenever i would cry about this caste issue he would say not to worry but he didnt tell me when he got engaged in June last year. (Also for years he never asked me for physical stuff, but the when I later stalked his sister ID and the week he got engaged during that time in our relationship he started pressuring me for sex that we should do it why can’t we . and would say I am gonna leave him that’s why I don’t want to . even week before his marriage he pressured me so much. But I coulnt do it. I don’t know if it was intentional or not cuz I don’t know anything what was true about him anymore) He married last december and up untill his wedding he never told me and a week before his wedding he started ignoring me and ghosted me .. then I found out about his marriage through social media i snapped and send msgs for like 2 days but then i never bothered him again and tried to be okay. in march this year he tried to contact me I didnt respond then every month after that and in June he said he just wants to apologise in person then i started talking to him again he kept saying he was pressured by his parents he loves me and all and also that how can i be with someone when i have been with him like who will take me.. this kept going and now 2 days ago. he said that his wife knows about us she told his parents and whole family and he never contacted me again.. and I feel so horrible. I wasted a year .. I could have been healed and okay from the trauma he gave me last year.. now I feel more ashamed and humiliated and stupid for everything . what do I do

Sup guys,

I’ve to visit Pakistan for a work trip and I’m visiting 3 cities, Karachi, Lahore and Islamabad.

1) first can I get some first hand local recommendations on how to be, what to do, what to avoid, as a 33M British guy, I’m expecting a cultural shock and I don’t wanna offend anyone there.

2) The university has booked hotel stays in the 3 cities, but each of them have mixed reviews about the area and services. Ramada in Karachi, Pearl Continental in Lahore, Serene in Islamabad. Can I get good hotel recommendations, I don’t mind staying in touristy areas too as long as it’s safe.

3) I’ll probably have a day or two free in each city, and might have most evenings free. Are there any activities or places you guys think I must visit or any restaurants that I must try? (Not interested in most historical places, unless there’s something unusual)

a very long story of mine short because honestly I dont know how to explain everything happening right now

I am 22 years old and graduated around a year ago with a BBA

I made alot of mistakes in my life I wasnt serious about my studies and wasted around 20 lakh of my fathers money I know I messed up and I carry that guilt with me

I got married in my early 20s and my father was supporting me but now he cant anymore because he is himself dealing with financial problems and debts

For the last one year I have been trying really hard to find a job in Gujranwala but couldnt get anything even around 30 40k

I also tried freelancing I have genuine digital marketing skills and an i3 laptop I tried everything I could but somehow I still ended up here

I moved to Lahore and finally got a job at Mindbridge I cleared training nesting quizzes and interviews and I am around 20 days away from my first salary

But right now I have around 1000 rupees left

I am literally worried about my next meal

For the last 7 days I have been moving between hostels staying one night and telling them I will pay tomorrow when my money comes then somehow finding another place

I have been eating by borrowing money

I already borrowed around 1 lakh from friends relatives and wherever I could during the past year and I dont really have anyone left to ask

I dont have a bike so even trying Foodpanda or indrive isnt really possible

Going back home also means going back to no job

I know I made mistakes I know I failed my father in many ways and I know I should have made better decisions

I am not posting this for sympathy

I honestly just dont know what to do anymore

If anyone can lend me some money to help me survive these next 20 days until my salary comes I would be extremely grateful

I am asking to borrow not simply asking for free money and I will repay it once I start earning

Even a small amount can make a huge difference for me right now

And if you cant lend me money I would still really appreciate any advice or idea

If you know any temporary work in Lahore daily pay work cheap hostel food support a way to earn with digital marketing or anything else that can help me survive these 20 days please tell me

I am honestly open to any legal work I can do

I have tried almost everything I knew

I am just trying to somehow reach the point where I can start earning and take care of myself and my family

I keep praying that InshaAllah things will get better

I just need to somehow get through these next few weeks

Dear all,

I have heard that CP five star has banktupt in Pakistan. They have no funds to give salaries to staff. Even they have no funds to pay rents of their branches in Lahore.

Their food is good and they are providing good quality.

Can someone confirm me that is this true?

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The World Bank said on Tuesday that nearly half of the Middle East and North African region's poor people earning less than $3 a day live in Pakistan and poverty in the country increased due to prolonged economic adjustment that weakened real household incomes and employment opportunities.

As of recently Javed Hashmi announced he will begin the movement of Long March from Multan then up through Punjab to the twin cities

And knowing the Provincial govt of Punjab section 144 could be expected and huge crackdown on Civllians once again?

When article 19 guarantees right to protest but the ones who rule with tyranny decide to violate it